“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Im Stuck

Comeback kid

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Things just don't seem to be working out for me. Maybe now isn't the right time for me to pursue being a dj towards women. Because they just aren't responding well to me. I use C+F and i get nothing, i use loads of kino and i get nothing. I even used keep away and it did nothing. I use alot of eye contact but everytime i do a girl looks away instantly. (I don't consider myself hideous, but idk). Its like im putting all the work in to get no gain, and im confident and im not desperate. Maybe its the girls here. I don't see any single friends doing the same thing as i am,most them don't even consider going for the girls(at school). One big time player friend of mine said he will never go for a girl at my school. I truly want to get better at talking to girls, but i don't want to be making a fool out myself for nothing. I guess right now im just stuck.

P.S (I wont go into explaining but school is basically the only place i can find girls right now).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IceCream

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Get to the point, take some risks.

You're giving them "IoI's" and they arent responding. Don't do all that nonsense for now, what you need is learning experience. Get a number or 2 after a small chat with girls you're interested in then set up dates.

Leave the flirting and the IoI's to the girls, and you do the event planning.
 

LostAndConfused

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Just a couple of possibilities, you seem to do everything right except these might be your problems:

1.) Your confidence isn't high enough. You see girls not returning IOI's, and you get discouraged. As time goes by when your with one of those girls, your chances start diminishing. High School girls usually don't catch on to this though, especially since your trying to maintain eye contact and use kino so its probably not confidence. Just a possibility.

2.) You have a bad rep. Nothing you can do there man. This has been said alot in this forum: These girls have watched you grow up. Watched you not make moves. Because you probably never tried to open them when you first met/saw them at school, hitting on them now won't work, as high school chicks are some of the most judgemental, prejudiced human beings on this entire planet. If you aren't on the football team, your chances are even worse (in some cases). Your in the same boat I'm in, and what I've been doing is networking...meeting girls through my school friends and friends outside of schools. Its actually easier than picking up girls in High School because in high school you see them alot and that can actually hurt your game. Meeting girls in high school through networking is like a real life experience. Meet, open, get a number, set up a date in less than a couple hours. Since you said you can't network and meet girls outside of school, you could just try to up your social proof with the GUYS for a while, just making friends with alot of people, then when your a senior (if you already are a senior, then you've gotta do this now), grow some balls, and start hitting on women as if you weren't at school, try to pull as many numbers as possible, hit on freshmen to seniors. Surprisingly, failing to score with women doesn't really f*ck up your social proof, especially if you do it alot....AS LONG AS YOU MAKE SURE YOU DON'T LOOK CREEPY/STALKER-ISH!!! Other guys will realize you have the balls to mack on women so they'll give you respect, and who gives a flying f*ck about the girls anyways, you won't see them anymore after your done with your senior year.

3.) Before you started DJing, you came off as just a friend. A nice guy. "Yeah hes cool to hang out with, but I'd rather f*ck/date Johnny the 6'2" 180 lbs line backer." Reversing this process is extremely hard. I wouldn't do it personally.

*Also, you might be in the friend-zone with girls you don't even know very well. In high school this happens alot because everyone is so close together (especially with your graduating class). If you're "just friends" with one girl, its quite easy to be put in the friend-zone with her friends. Its still possible to go out with them though.*

4.) The girls in your school are just b*tches. This is probably the most likely of everything I've just said. I don't know you at all, but you are probably at a school where most of the girls who graduate and go off to college end up going to a sh*tty one at best, a party school of course, where they do nothing but party and have sex, and if they do graduate college, if they are lucky, they'll just marry some rich guy, but most will end up moving back to where they graduated high school from, marrying their high school "sweetheart." You don't want to be a part of that cycle.

If you need any other advice feel free to PM me
 
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