I'm stuck

[REJ-]

I have failed at every attempt to get a girl in my entire lifetime(4 so far) . I've never kissed a girl, nor have I had a gf before. Sad, but true... Which is why I need to improve

So I came upon this forum/website, and it's changed my view and is setting me on the right path.But, I have a problem now that I see no solution to.

I hate my school now. My reputation is really bad. I'm not popular at all, and that doesn't help anything. If you've read the article that compares how women see us to how we look at video games, I'm that one that has tons of bad reviews. I'm not ugly, but I'm not hot either, I kinda went from being a 7-9 to a 0-1. So, I'm on the verge of hopeless.

Lately, things have been rather different. A random girl that I don't know very well will start to show signs that she's into me, and after a week or two, she'll just go cold, then it'd start up again with another girl and then stop. It's only happened twice, but I don't know what to make of it.

It wasn't always like this, I was kinda popular when I first came to my school, then something went wrong and now I'm where I'm at. Apparently I tend to make good first impressions (probably what happened with those two chicks, but on a smaller scale).

What sucks most about my situation is that I get made fun of for not having any sucess at all with women, but when I make any kind of interaction with a girl, it gets ruined by some "unfortunate" interuption. And this only happens to me

I'm leaving after this year is done, and moving to a new school, but I don't know what to do right now. My original plan was to just wait for the rest of the year to pass, and not give a S*** what happens.

Should I just wait it out, and start again when I leave, or should I try to see how far I can get with a girl before I get "interupted" or before my reputation gets to her, just so I have some kind of experience? Or should I try something else? Is there even any advice that can help out in my situation?

 

[Fender]

Hohohoo!!! You're in the best situation right now!

You're gonna leave pretty soon, and you won't ever see 99.9998 of your current school mates EVER again! What a blessing. Sounds like its time for REJ- to do some serious damage!:trouble:

Btw, never wait for "tommorrow" to change. Always change NOW because tommorrow almost always means NEVER.

I'd so go for those two girls. You've got nothing to lose, and experience can only be good for you

It sounds to me like you know exactly what your problems are- if not consciously, then at least subconsciously. Just work on fixing em', have a more positive attitude, and you'll be alright. The most important thing is to lift yourself up from your own self-pity and make a difference. No one ever got anywhere by calling themselves a loser.

G'luck mate!

 

[Skilla_Staz]

The one thing that just oozes out of your post is self-pity. I used to be in the same boat you are my friend. I always felt sorry for myself. I always thought that anything that happened to me was because of something else. It took me a while, but I realized that everything that happens is because of a decision I made. Me. Not that girl, not my mom, not my friend. Me. You're already on the right path in joining this forum. Hopefully, if you don't end up posting useless and annoying threads, you'll get the help you need. First step? Changing how you see yourself. Take pride in your appearance. Get some new clothes, new hairstyle, basically a new you for your new school.

Once you look better, you'll feel better. We'll continue from there when it happens.


"Don't like it? Change it. Can't change it? Bullsh*t.There is no can't"

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Well if you were once "popular" and looked "7-9" then what's up? did you r*pe a guy or something? You said your reputation went down to sh*t... Why? is it because ur antisocial and have no friends? well if you do have friends ask them what's wrong with you. Once you find out what's wrong with you just fix it, maybe it's something small that you didn't realize. Start meeting more ppl and start rebuilding your reputation. Right now your acting as the loser/outcast because people are telling you too. It's your dicision to change your image so if you want to leave and be remembered as the f*g then do nothing.

I was in the same position too, I used to think I was popular until one day I was backstabbed by my friends, I asked them what I was doing wrong and they told me I was a liar so I fixed it and by the time I graduated I was the most popular guy at school. If I were you I wouldn't give a flying f*ck what other people say since your leaving anyways and get the most out of the school by getting laid as many HB as possible.