I'm stuck after this step...

[CCKazi007]

Hi guys I've read the bible and all the useful articles and thankfully I know how to attract girls and get them interested... but I don't know how to transition from that point. So here's a few quetion I would like to be answered.

1. Do I ask for the phone number or their email/ AIM screen name? I know to call after 3-4 days and make sure to keep the phone convo short and to the point.

2. Since I don't have a car and live in a town with no public transportation I really can't go anywhere so how can I actually go on dates? should I have my parents drive me to her house? pick her up then go get dropped off to the date spot? I really feel embarrased that I have to get a ride from my parents just to go on a date...

3. Is it bad to get a ride from your date? I've met a couple girls who have their own car cuz they're rich and would probably pick me up and drop me off but I think it's pretty gay and I might be left behind if I mess up and piss her off on the date...

I know these are stupid problems but I really need someone to help me since I am still an AFC.

 

[brenbaus]

ok,
1. How old are you?

2. Quit being a wuss and ask for her number

 

[CCKazi007]

1. 16

2. I got her number I can call her and set up a date. But I have no mode of transportation... I can a ride from parents but it's awkward to drive over to her house and then pick her up then drop her off after the date.

 

[brenbaus]

From personal experience, I just got a car and i am 19, so i had mom, dad, and grandma driving me everywhere until recently, you have 2 options

Arrange to meet her at the date location, dont tell her right away about the transportation problem.

Go ahead and tell her about the transportation situation right away and get that out of the way

as a side note:
There was a girl i was dating about a year ago, i told her right away and she was cool with it, we mostly did house dates (usually at my house cause her mom is a b1tch!!), sometimes it works, sometimes not

 

[CCKazi007]

I feel very stupid I should have just got my lisence and drove my parents car! Brenbaus thanks for the insight I was beyond enlightened. One last quetion though what's better getting the email/AIM screen name for the phone number first?

 

[brenbaus]

go for the phone number, email is cool if your doing myspace sarging, but phone is much more better cause its not always what you say, but how you say it and what attitude you have

 

[CCKazi007]

go for the phone number, email is cool if your doing myspace sarging, but phone is much more better cause its not always what you say, but how you say it and what attitude you have

Damn thank you so much you've been great help! see you around and goodluck.

 

[brenbaus]

this aint about luck dude, its all about confidence

 

[AverageDon]

this aint about luck dude, its all about confidence

coulnd't have said it any better