"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm strong... but I want to look better.

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My workout routines usually consist of heavy weight and low reps.

I know this is great for building strength, but I wish to look better. I don't look toned, I'm just large. My chest sticks out, my biceps are large and my thighs are massive but they arn't really sculpted.

Should I focus on more reps of lower weight? If so what amount of reppage, etc.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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itishe said:
My workout routines usually consist of heavy weight and low reps.

I know this is great for building strength, but I wish to look better. I don't look toned, I'm just large. My chest sticks out, my biceps are large and my thighs are massive but they arn't really sculpted.

Should I focus on more reps of lower weight? If so what amount of reppage, etc.
no, you should keep your training the same and increase cardio, eat cleaner, employ carb cutoffs etc to lose fat. a big person with no tone = you have excess fat.

in a couple of months you'll make a huge difference, and so much the better if there's lots of muscle to show off under the fat.
 

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I was thinking of eating these foods and only these foods on a daily basis:

Lettuce - Salad oriented foods
Turkey
Chicken
Beef
Milk
Water
Pasta (early in the day)
Eggs
Toast once and a while with peanut butter

Sound good?
 

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Listen to Warboss Alex. You're doing fine. Keep on the heavy weight low reps.

Check you're food & cut the bodyfat. You'll look great.
 

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For cardio how's the elepitical machine at the gym?

What percentage of my max heartrate should I work at to burn fat?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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itishe said:
For cardio how's the elepitical machine at the gym?

What percentage of my max heartrate should I work at to burn fat?
the elliptical is fine. I don't bother with heart rates; just keep a brisk pace that requires some effort but doesn't stop you having a conversation (i.e. you can talk without getting breathless while cardio-ing).

do this for 30-45 mins every day except leg day and when/if fat loss stalls increase it to 45-60 mins. best time is before breakfast; take a scoop of whey in water beforehand or some BCAAs. wait 30-40 mins before your next meal and try to make it pro/fat (or very low GI carb).

(or do non-fasted HIIT)

I would ditch the pasta and milk if you want to lose fat. I'm also iffy about toast but if it's wholegrain sprouted bread and in strict moderation it could be okay.

be sure to drink or supplement with green tea and fish oil (10-15g a day). I'd also increase the fats in your diet (through eggs, olive oil, flax oil, nuts etc).
 

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I'd say do more stretching as well.

Streching and has definitely helped my circulation and my overall manner of carrying myself. I stretch for like 30 minutes a day on top of powerlifting and that really helps my naked look. I also feel like I can focus more on which muscles I'm flexing in my workouts.
 

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itishe said:
Toast once and a while with peanut butter
Lots of carbs and lots of fat in the same meal really isn't a good idea if you're aiming for fat loss. Especially simple carbs like bread usually tends to be.

Once in a while if you don't mean "every other day" is probably livable.
 
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