"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm still too scary looking

dirtyvibe

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monster squad said:
What the **** are you going on about about again? Gynecomastia vests now? You're judging this based on what exactly. Orson Welles had a round face, and he wasn't fat when he was younger. If I dropped to 190 it'd be suicide. 210 and I'd already be at like 0% bodyfat.

Stay out of my topic.
how much do you weigh? how tall are you?

Unless you're like 7' tall, I can't imagine 190 lbs being suicide..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Randallpink83

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Stuntmann said:
3) Shave. Facial hair are not attractive.

I didn't see his pictures... but are you just talking about HIS facial hair.. or facial hair in general??

plenty of chicks dig facial hair... PLENTY!!!
 

Fluffy

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Randallpink83 said:
I didn't see his pictures... but are you just talking about HIS facial hair.. or facial hair in general??

plenty of chicks dig facial hair... PLENTY!!!

However, the majority do not. I would think an important aspect of the game is to market yourself to as many women as possible, with facial hair you are cutting out a lot of the population.
 

zerocelcius

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Fluffy said:
However, the majority do not. I would think an important aspect of the game is to market yourself to as many women as possible, with facial hair you are cutting out a lot of the population.

Actually the poll says that Most girls Prefer both. If it is a week day they would like to see you clean shaven (it shows you have drive and are professional...aka you have money and success)

If it is the weekend than they don't want you to be clean shaven (shows you are anal and don't know when to have fun and loosen up.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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