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I'm starting well, but I don't know very well what to do next

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Hi, I've meet this girl on university and I'm as far as good with her, but that's not very far...

We see each other about 2 times a week, and not for very long time, we have good conversation, I grabed her hands once with an excuse about her nails, I use to push her... and stuff, and I have some kind of confidence ;] I let her talk about herself and I try my best to keep the conversation going around her ego and her emotions and stuff

ok, for how the things are I can tell that she should think of me every once in a while, her eyes doesn't sparkle when she looks at me... but I think that that sparkle is comming... but not for sure, I still can screw it...

I'm unsure about me aproaching too directly, because it comes to my mind that women doesn't like men beeing too obvius, but she is shy and "small" [not literally] so I think that kind of girl has to be aproached more directly than the rest.

this is a critical point in her emotions I can tell, what should I do to increase her atraction?, she is the shy type [not thaat shy though]

I think that at this point I need to create a comfortable athmosphere between us, that let us be more open... hmm I let you guys speak...

thank you! =)
 

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tnx

and, sorry I insist... but I could really use some help...

anyone? :)
 
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Originally posted by sam21
what should I do to increase her atraction?
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Assume attraction, there is no need of trying to increase anything.

You know each other and you have some good rapport. Perfect. Advise by flexion_ is on the point here. Your next goal definitely should be to kiss her.

It´s possible that you come over more as a friend and not that sexually so far. Change this.

So advise here again: Isolate her at a place where both of you are alone and when you feel so kiss her. I am serious here, that´s what you have to do. Do it, there are no alternatives, kiss her. ;)
 
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