Im starting to think all women are Fvcked in the head

[Thundernuts]

Okay so I was seeing a this girl for a few months everything is going good. This girl worshipped the ground i walked on because her previous boyfriend was abusive(at first i didnt believe it but then she showed me a video. Nuff said) Then one day she starts talking about how i can be immature and since i am three years older than her she thought i would be alot more serious. Needless to say it was over. Bout a week later im banging another chick but she wanted a relationship and i said no.

First girl contacts me last night asking if we could talk, i was drunk so i didnt give a godd@mn. She tells me how perfect i was and how the whole immature thing was just bull****. Basically she said she felt like i could do better than her and she thought i wasnt happy.

But get this. This girl was fvcking someone else to. She ended up being a sex slave to a guy who is 42(Im only 23 and she is 20) and he beat the living fvck out of her. She was his pet for a week(or so she says)

So now this girl is wanting me to get back together with her and I am trying REALLY hard to not just scream "ARE YOU FVCKIN HIGH?!!!" I mean the one thing that is kind of bothering me is that this woman disrespected me as a man. I feel even more disrespected that she would actually try and come back to me after she has been violated in ways she never saw herself doing (her words not mine).Doing things she wouldnt let me do. I woke up after about three hours of sleep and have been evualating myself ever since.

What are your guys thoughts, i figure i would tell my story on here in case someone had some piece of knowledge or a past experience that could possibly benefit me. Thanks in advance.

 

[El Payaso]

She's looking for a beta provider. She sees you as the "nice, normal man". Most men here would advice you to just use her as a FB or one last sex but these women are just too toxic. You need to kick her out of your life and let her know she shouldn't be in contact with you ever again. Delete her texts, delete her number and block it.

She's an ultimate wh0re and will always be an ultimate wh0re.

 

[Night-hawk]

Yeah. They're unbearable for the most part. I basically disregard taking them serious at this point in my life journey.

She wants you to whip her into shape by being the guy who stops her from being a whure. Might as well bring out the leather whip too. Seems she wants both haha.

 

[Thundernuts]

Well after my last long term relationship I'm not much of a provider. This girl spent probably about 600$ on me while all i did was just drive to her house.

I know what i need to do concerning her. I've developed alot since i joined sosuave and its because i was never afraid to ask for advice no matter how stupid i acted. I'm more concerned on wether or not I should use her actions and how she respects/disrespects me in seeing if there is something else i am oblivious to that needs development.

I'm not touching this wh0re she'll take a ding dong up the hoohoo from a total stranger but one night I had an accident and next thing you know my balls are fifty shades of blue. Thats some B.S. no matter which way you look at it.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Ha-ha this post made me lol !!

Firstly -you nexted her in the first place so you’ve already won this battle you haven’t lost any face at all

Secondly - she is the one who is creating all this drama in her life (voluntarily by the sounds of things) it has nothing to do with you and quite frankly I find it quite unfair that shes had the cheek to dump all of her guilty conscious on you

Thirdly –this girl sounds absolutely F**UCKED in the head like way beyond what can be laughed off ….do you really want a girl like this in your life ?

Seriously man run for the hills

 

[Thundernuts]

Ha-ha this post made me lol !!

Thankyou, it seems im at my funniest when im deep in thought

Thirdly –this girl sounds absolutely F**UCKED in the head like way beyond what can be laughed off ….do you really want a girl like this in your life ?

Seriously man run for the hills

Thats what im saying

And get this i just got this txt she wants to come over to my place(she been here before so thats no secret). Now i was thinking telling her to bring all my stuff that i left at her house but at the same time dont know if i should:

a) grab my stuff and yell"Dueces"
b) get bj, get stuff, then yell "dueces"
c) tell her its not a good idea.

 

[backseatjuan]

I recommend this post by jah **** http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212393


My personal observation, not all women are ****ed up.

 

[Thundernuts]

I mean realistically every piece of advice that you read on these forums is a generalization to some degree or another.

I know that not every woman i am gonna meet is insane. Some are, so naturally one must keep his guard up. You have to probe but you have to be smart. Sometimes you probe deep(for the love of god wear a rubber) and sometimes they let others probe way deeper than you.

I am not trying to validate myself. I have nothing im trying to prove to anyone other than that i have nothing im trying to to prove.

 

[Jariel]

If you want an indication what a girl wants in a man, listen to the type of guy her ex was.

Women with abusive boyfriends tend to repeat the cycle or are at least drawn to bad boys who treat them mean. They will always say they want a nice guy and to learn from their mistakes, but what they say and what they feel is very inconsistent.

If I ever date a girl who mentions an abusive ex, it's a glaring red flag and I rule her out on the spot.

 

[Thundernuts]

If I ever date a girl who mentions an abusive ex, it's a glaring red flag and I rule her out on the spot.

Holysh!t. You know i am a little embarassed to be saying this but i never thought of that. And i was raised by a single mother who did the exact same thing and well i never thought about that.

Okay. Im gonna meet this chick and get my things and send her packin. This girl can have anything she wants, its not my problem she picks sh!t over silver.

Thankyou Jariel.

 

[Alvafe]

well I would have said what you hold back the are you ********* high.

or just to see what I could fish, well since you are already trained as a sex slave, I guess I can have some uses for you.

 

[Thundernuts]

LOL. Honestly her best-friend just called me and asked me if i was thinking of getting together with her again. I told her hell no. Its funny because she basically is telling me the same thing as everyone else.

And alvafe...Dude I have met the guy...he is one of those guys that smokes and never brushes his teeth. His Plaque has plaque. There is just no way in hell i would punish my pecker by messing with this girl.

And Muaser96, thankyou i found your post very funny as well as very insightful. I actually dated a girl with BPD(back when i had no idea what kind of hell i was about to unleash) and aside from being a really great fvck it really was a nightmare. I could tell you some war stories man. Thanks everyone

 

[Jariel]

Holysh!t. You know i am a little embarassed to be saying this but i never thought of that. And i was raised by a single mother who did the exact same thing and well i never thought about that.

Okay. Im gonna meet this chick and get my things and send her packin. This girl can have anything she wants, its not my problem she picks sh!t over silver.

Thankyou Jariel.

It took me some time to figure this out too, but it seems to be so common. Abused girls will try to date cool, healthy minded, decent guys, but they tend to lose interest quickly or will cheat/leave for an abusive bad boy.

I believe they're like emotional junkies who get addicted to the drama, and all the highs and lows of being with an abusive guy while a healthy relationship gets too boring for them.