"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm starting to notice that the sappy AFC gets farther than me in HS!

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What the hell is this?

My AFC friend, the guy who begs girls online to trade pictures of their boobs for pictures of his ****, the guy with no style, no game, and no temper is getting a girlfriend.

But wait; the quality of these girls is pathetic.

The rant's over before it's even started.

Anyway, I assume that owning your own car helps greatly in DJing/PUA?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If the quality of these girls are no good then theres nothing to be jelious of.
And yes as much as girls love boys who ride bikes to dates, as I use to do, they love boys who can drive even more.
Read the DJ Bible at the bottem if you havnt btw.
 

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failure is not being single; failure is being in a bad relationship
 

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You always see dud guys get ugly chicks. They are everywhere. Ugly, dero and emo couples. Ugh. Don't waste you breath on these, and don't even think about being jealous. An ugly chick is no achivement at all.

Despite this I have been saying for awhile some AFC guys get girls in high school. No one seemed to agree with me. One of my mates was the biggers AFC I have ever seen but he scored a really hot girl and it fvcked me for awhile. I think it has something to do with him being inwardly AFC but they take his false boasting as real game and confidence when really there is nothing there.

Another one of my mates got a fairly decent girl awhile back and he is one of the biggest pvssies ever. But that could easily be mistaken for being laid back and quietly confident.

(I'm exagerating slightly and I love these guys to death its just that it screwed me around so much its hard to take it lightly)

Owning a car is great, especially if you want younger girls. However it's no substitute for real game and wont help you later on (even if it will help you score with chicks 2/3 years younger if your not a complete AFC wanker).
 

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lol well it looks lik you need to try harder. or there is an un forseen ugly shadow about you that you need to change
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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numerous explanations for this phenomenon

You guys aren't listening to what I said. Plenty of chumps get girls, get married, etc. They're called average for a reason. Remember, average guys get married.

And then about 60% of them get divorced, with women initiating the divorce in about 2/3 of cases.

A boy who does not act like a man can still have a "relationship" with a hot girl; it just probably won't be a healthy one. She'll boss him around, probably get fat eventually, maybe cheat on him, or whatever.

And besides all this, SinJester makes a couple good points. Furthermore, if they're trading pictures of their c0ck for boobs then they're probably just sleeping with hors.

Finally, some of the guys you think are chumps may actually be better men than you realize. You said that these guys have no "game," but remember that "game" is for a pick-up-artist, not a man. It is possible to succeed by doing many things that seem prohibited in the DJ Bible if the circumstances call for it and the attitude is right. For example, giving compliments can work; being chivalrous can get girls, etc. A man gives compliments and does nice things for women for the right motives, however -- not simply as a means of bribing her for sex.
 

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love the post obsidian

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