"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm soooo HOT!!!!

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Sweaty and uncomfortable...

it's barely 5 degrees outside, but I'm still feeling it. I can run around in my boxers at -20 and feel great, than the heat comes to town and I get all groggy.

Anybody have advice?

I drink tons of water, and I exercise regularly... I hope I don't have to just tough it out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Menapause.


Are you just saying you're temp hot, or are you trying some lame attempt at a play on words?
 
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No, I'm not getting hot flashes.

Same thing at this time of year, hot and muggy... it pisses me off so bad.

Just wondering if there was any Health & Fitness measures I can take to become used to the heat faster?

How do people deal with heat waves other than swimming and hopping on a bike?
 
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flippinfreak said:
No, I'm not getting hot flashes.

Same thing at this time of year, hot and muggy... it pisses me off so bad.

Just wondering if there was any Health & Fitness measures I can take to become used to the heat faster?

How do people deal with heat waves other than swimming and hopping on a bike?
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Wear a parka.

If you're not dead after a couple of hours, you're good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm the eskimo(Inuk)

I'm still hot though, but breeze picked up so I'm doing better.
 
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Uuuhm. Wank it off!
 
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Stay indoors and turn up the AC.
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ALL the time? There's no AC at the office I work in, I keep the door open and hope a cool breeze reaches me, about all I can do inside.

I've gone outside and done a few quick dashes up and down the street to get some breeze going through me. I also got some thoughts from Warboss Alex and I found out half of it is in my head. He talked about high metabolism and taking a shower, pictured the shower and swimming in the river and I cooled right down.

Just wondering if you guys know of any physical ways I can be prepared for heat when in an office with no AC when I can't get outside.

Like, if you've ever been part of a heatwave and there was a blackout, all you have is ice, and you can't go around an office with icepacks and be professional about it.

I'm going to take the parka recommendation:p I'll overheat myself tonight and hopefully my body just reacts positively to it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Deal with it. If you're hot, you're hot. Theres nothing you can really do to become "used" to it. Although, I take scalding hot shower, and the hot weather doesn't bother me as much as it does other people. The steam and the heat might help.
 
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Really I can't give any better advice. I love hot weather, which is why I live in SoCal. Even my room is a good 10 degrees warmer than the rest of the house. I'm the guy that is completely comfortable in the room when everyone else is complaining about the heat. It takes alot for me to want my environment colder.

I think it has something to do with our core temperature. I had to take my temperature every day for a month for a project and I averaged almost a degree colder than the average (98.6). The highest I measured at was 98.4 and the coldest was 97.0. Strange huh?
 
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Very, like the complete opposite of myself. I've never measured daily for any reason, but only once was my core temp below average. Women always complain about how HOT I am when I cuddle, they ask me why my hands are warm, and think I am blushing when I am not(which makes me blush).

I usually sleep nude, with a TINY blanket, window open and I still toss and turn at night before I fall asleep. I can lay in snow with only boxers on for like five minutes... I love the cold.
 
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I get something similiar. Especially when I get frustrated with something or start thinking about the heat alot. Then it gets worse and I start itching everywhere and it won't stop, it sucks.
 
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I love the heat. Even when its almost unbearable.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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