"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Im so sick of these fools ruining the Game...I need to speak out...

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I need to vent, and what I say prolly has been said by many others, but here it is anyway...Im so sick of these fools ruining the game...Nowadays, dudes will do anything to get a broad, they will trick on them, they will change their whole style for them, etc...And what kills me is that these kids walk around like they are pimps or something...WTF? At least I have my self respect and my money at the end of the day cause these girls arnt even feeling them like that, they are just using them...What happened to the days when respect was the most imporatant thing? Thats why so many guys do stupid sh1t like that, cause they dont respect themselves and women dont respect them so they use them...And all of this just makes the game harder and harder...

All I can say is to love yourself, more than any broad...When you love yourself, you wont put yourself in these fukked up positions, you wont allow yourself to get played cause you love yourself...If a broad is acting funny, you can walk away cause you love yourself...If youre not getting what you want, you will improve yourself cause you love yourself...Sex and being women who dont really even like you is not worth your self respect...When people see that you love yourself and you have standards, your value will go up...It doesnt matter how many girls you hit or none of that sh1t, its about who you are as a person...I know this one kid, he always brags about how many girls hes seeing...But guess what, he cant keep them cause they always stray, he spends mad money taking them on dates that lead nowhere and he doesnt even hit all of them, and his main chick is all up on me all the time...I could fukk her, but thats just wrong, Im not doing that dirty boy sh1t...So why is he doing all of this? To prove hes some kind of pimp or something? Get outta here with that...If he stopped trying to run weak game and everything and just be himself, he could keep a broad..

So let me wrap this up...Love yourself for who you are, change what you can and deal with what you cant change...Make people respect you...Dont do things that are out of your character to please a woman, get sex. etc...And Ill say it again, love yourself, more than any woman...I dont know about other people on here, but Id rather have 6 women out of 50 really feel me for me then try to win fake approval by tricking and all this other foolish sh1t...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hell yeah man.

I see all these guys in the gym these days, and I talk to them and ask them why they are investing hundreds of dollars and hours and all they say with a sheepish smile is "I'm trying to get laid...". WTF? How about doing it because you enjoy it? How about investing IN YOURSELF? Educate yourself, learn a musical instrument or a foreign language. DO SOMETHING FOR YOU, NOT WOMEN! :down:

me, i've never set foot in a gym in my life. Not because i'm not confident or an insecure, its because i refuse to do something for someone else's benefit before mine, with nothing in return. I have a bench at home and dumbells, i'll train when i damn well please.
 

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This thread doesn't offer any new enlightenment, it's somewhere along the category of yawning and waiting till dinnertime comes around.
 

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
This thread doesn't offer any new enlightenment, it's somewhere along the category of yawning and waiting till dinnertime comes around.
I never said it was gonna be anything new, I said that at the beginning of my post...Now go eat your dinner, its prolly getting cold...
 

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Personally, I disagree with the whole manipulation thing... all these people saying "just be yourself" doesnt work... it does if you respect yourself. Unfortunately, posting it in a thread won't help anything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Personally, I disagree with the whole manipulation thing... all these people saying "just be yourself" doesnt work... it does if you respect yourself. Unfortunately, posting it in a thread won't help anything.
This is what I dont get...On this site, you have a whole bunch of people making threads about simple girl problems that can be easily solved, and people get mad about it..Then you have people who post good sh1t, even if its not anything new, and people get upset about it...Sorry guys, there isnt anything new, and if you think that what people are saying is old, then just get out of the thread...You cant reinvent the wheel, maybe some new person on here will read what I said, so it might help something and I just felt like posting...It isnt that serious...
 

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Right on bro.
There's so many people on this forum that just want to learn tips and tricks to score them some broad.
In the end though, they never really love themselves cuz they're whole life is devoted to getting some ***** at the end of a stick.

They also mess the game up for everyone else, cuz they constantly give women attention and the woman gets to pick the little puppy that she can train.

What i've noticed, is that all these guys end up going after the attention wh0res... in the meantime the quiet shy girl doesn't get any attention.
What you want to do is scout out the girl/girls that's alone... or as my buisness proffesor would say:
"you gotta find your niche", or a segment that you have an advantage in.

Your advantage:

Confidence, dominance.

AFCs:

Agreeableness, Submisive.

You can go sit next to a girl that's alone and talk to her because you are dominant. AFCs can't, they center around the loudest girl and try shower her with compliments because they have a submissive nature.

Now usually, you would think of a male as being dominant, Right? But our society's become so messed up, to the point where opposite is actually accepted by many women..:rolleyes:

Avoid those women, they're actually men. :D

I've seen these biotches drag in their husband, or bf like a little puppy on a leash.
 

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Missing a point

The whole point of any of this is the emotional roller coaster that some guys like myself enjoy riding.

We like the thrill of constant breakups, new lays, cold approaches, etc. We enjoy the challenge of ONSing as many women as possible. It is like a drug. A very, very addictive drug that one cannot get enough of once fully addicted.

It becomes an academic exercise as well. Learning which techniques work best in a given situation. We challenge, prod, and compete against fellow addicts who become our best friends.

In the end, we eat better, work out more oftem, learn how to socialize, get out more often, and get a TON more bootie than we ever dreamed possible. The downside is we will probably never get over this or have any knowledge what this obsession caused us to miss out on. Personally, I do keep other goals such as traveling, sight seeing, and drawing in mind.
 

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really, its gotten to the point in life right now ... where if you really want a relationship - dream on ... there's so much cheating and foul play going on out there that its no wonder y that the majority of women in their relationships are unhappy

most women nowadays are independent with feminist ideals ....

best way to go is just learn this game to a science ... pimp as many ho's as possible , take none of it to heart , and maybe have a kid of your own if you want a family .... and of course work on bettering YOUR own life

Maybe one day we can create cloned women with a greater dependency on men and better morals as well ...

- L8rs
 

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No, you guys dont understand what Im talking about, lol...Its not about learning techniques, sh1t, at least youre learning something and youre respecting yourself...Its about people who are so thirsty for girls that they lose their self respect...I hate when dudes think they are pimps cause they got a dime on their arm but the only reason why shes there is because of the dough...I learned from the old school that tricking isnt allowed, but guys do it anyways...What happened to getting at girls with your game, etc, and making them respect you? Why are dudes spending all this money? All its doing is making it harder, so now to get the a$$ I gotta go through more sh1t tests and whatnot cause I wont give in like these other chumps, who buy girls clothes and getting them cell phone plans that they pay for...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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STOP :eek:

RIGHT NOW.


TxCowboy, YOU ought to be a freakin shame of yourself.


Everybody... execpt for the few on this board that get this message...

See that link in the top right hand corner of this page? It's a book with all of the neatest, most swellest posts on this forum. Everything you could possibly want to know about women, life direction and goal setting is in that one little blue link on the top right hand of this page?


I don't rant, but I ought to come though this PC monitor and slap some sense into some of you.. :mad:


:kick:

best way to go is just learn this game to a science

Needless to say you will be here, 3-5 years from now, still honing in on your "science"



You know what? I am not even going to say what the poster said, and by the way, he is 110% right.. every post here is about some gay crap that more than likely has been posted 10-20 times before but the person is too lazy to use the search funtion, and when someone says something with some sense like "hey you are more important than woman" you get mad because he is saying something that is getting under your skin..


this isn't a game.. This is your LIFE!!!!! You only get so many days in life to live? When you are on your deathbed, hopefully not soon, would you rathe rlook back and say "I made the most of every opprotunity I had given to me, I lived life to it's fullest and I have no regrets" or say (butt-head) "uhuhuh....I scored... uhuhhuhuh"


PVSSY is not going anywhere anytime soon1!! I swear to god it's not!

I mean my gosh people, you wonder why slowly and slowly all of the odlder posters don't come back to give advice anymore?


Let me just shut up before I really get mad, but I will just say a life chasing women is not very much of a life. Yes, women are very nice, but a women should be the CHERRY to your Ice Cream sundae, not the damn ice cream
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
No, you guys dont understand what Im talking about, lol...Its not about learning techniques, sh1t, at least youre learning something and youre respecting yourself...Its about people who are so thirsty for girls that they lose their self respect...I hate when dudes think they are pimps cause they got a dime on their arm but the only reason why shes there is because of the dough...I learned from the old school that tricking isnt allowed, but guys do it anyways...What happened to getting at girls with your game, etc, and making them respect you? Why are dudes spending all this money? All its doing is making it harder, so now to get the a$$ I gotta go through more sh1t tests and whatnot cause I wont give in like these other chumps, who buy girls clothes and getting them cell phone plans that they pay for...
good point.

That is fine with me, because more guys like that, you know, not think, but know not only why their women is witht hem, but know tha tif you wanted them, you could get them.. they are just keeping the car warm :D

I have a nice amount of money. However, I don't and never will trick for a woman... too many videos on BET, tricking is not the "thing to do" I mean... If I ask a girl out, I am not going to ask her to pay, I asked for her time... but i"ll be damned if a girl calls me, asks me if she wants to do something, and then asks ME to pay her way for anything, unless she is my GF which then is understandable and even then it would have to be a serious relationship
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
No, you guys dont understand what Im talking about, lol...Its not about learning techniques, sh1t, at least youre learning something and youre respecting yourself...Its about people who are so thirsty for girls that they lose their self respect...I hate when dudes think they are pimps cause they got a dime on their arm but the only reason why shes there is because of the dough...I learned from the old school that tricking isnt allowed, but guys do it anyways...What happened to getting at girls with your game, etc, and making them respect you? Why are dudes spending all this money? All its doing is making it harder, so now to get the a$$ I gotta go through more sh1t tests and whatnot cause I wont give in like these other chumps, who buy girls clothes and getting them cell phone plans that they pay for...
From street-lingo-ology 101 I've learnt that those guys aren't really pimps or players... they're bawlers... superfiscial fellas delighted by what they can obtain from paying the cost of living...

They might bring a hot chick to a 5 star restaurant but they got a Mickey D type personality...
 

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Originally posted by DjDreamer
From street-lingo-ology 101 I've learnt that those guys aren't really pimps or players... they're bawlers... superfiscial fellas delighted by what they can obtain from paying the cost of living...

They might bring a hot chick to a 5 star restaurant but they got a Mickey D type personality...
The sad thing is alot of these dudes dont even have money like that, theyre faking...I remember this one guy at a job I had, he would spend all this money on clothes trying to impress all the girls, and he was running this weak game and you could tell the girls wernt impressed or respected him like that...One day he wore $300 Evisu jeans and girls were laughing at the fact that he spent that much...At the same time, I was wearing $20 Aerpostale Boot Cuts and a 5 for $20 Foot Locker shirt and the same broads were jocking cause I carried myself in a way that commanded respect...They liked me so much cause everyone respected me...

Respect is everything in life...If you get no respect you will die 1,000 deaths and you will get no girls...Remember that...
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Respect is everything in life...If you get no respect you will die 1,000 deaths and you will get no girls...Remember that...
True... but above all respect yourself... don't let anyone use you...

"Respect heroes above men, gods above demi-gods, but above all, respect yourself" - Pythagoras
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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in some cases these lames have ruined the game so much that these women dont know what a realman who respect himself is.
these males loose thier respect from a young age that these women never encounters a realman from thier teenage years till adulthood thats why we got fuked up attentionwhoorre
bicthes allover the place.
once they encounter a man that respects himself in some cases these women hate that because of all the attention they are used to having and these fake pimps spending everydollar on them

keep it up and it take a while to sink in b4 they know you arnt like evry other man. some women can handle it some cant but will i change my ways for a women? never.
 

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wooo

beatching and moaning.
let me join, let me join.

NOT

stop beatching and moaning
 

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Re: Missing a point

Originally posted by everywomanshero
The whole point of any of this is the emotional roller coaster that some guys like myself enjoy riding.

We like the thrill of constant breakups, new lays, cold approaches, etc. We enjoy the challenge of ONSing as many women as possible. It is like a drug. A very, very addictive drug that one cannot get enough of once fully addicted.
What gives you the right? I will always remember my AFC roots, and the fact that the AFC's are THE DECENT DUDES.

When you have a ONS with some slutty girl, you're really not affecting me, but when you want to date a SWEET GIRL, and you LIE to her when she wants a LTR and you're cheating on her, having ONS's with sluts, then that's when I become homicidal.

Oh, and fakeness, tricks, games... those piss me off, too.

Maybe because I'm the real deal.
 

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What gives you the right? I will always remember my AFC roots, and the fact that the AFC's are THE DECENT DUDES.

When you have a ONS with some slutty girl, you're really not affecting me, but when you want to date a SWEET GIRL, and you LIE to her when she wants a LTR and you're cheating on her, having ONS's with sluts, then that's when I become homicidal.

Oh, and fakeness, tricks, games... those piss me off, too.

Maybe because I'm the real deal.




if you have to use tricks and games..your inner game isnt up to par.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
if you have to use tricks and games..your inner game isnt up to par.
True words... sometimes the trickster/player ends of tricking/playing himself... trying to run game on a chick that has made up her mind concerning wheter or not their is a chance of intimacy just after 5 minutes of meeting...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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