"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im so out of fear

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well guys i dont know wether i should say that is a good or a bad thing and i guess that i turned to be someone who fears nothing.................
well my storie is that the dose of no fear and being a man and explaining my manhood was a litel bit ,,,,,,,,,well over dose

i mean i transformed myself from a shy guy into a bold guy i mean i dont hesitate from the first time im talcking to a girl to chat about kissing her sleeping with her....you know and i dont use no techniques just a simple im hot and you want me ok so admit it



i get phone numbers but im still atached to that special girl so i dont give a **** about all other...............


so what do u say..............


pain is the greatest cure.......billi
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So you just woke up one day and feared nothing?

OR you just grew up and it happened over time?

The point being?
 

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no the point of what i said is

that maybe i should think more about my first aproach i mean i wanna get the girl to like me so some help in here may be good


so what should i do
 

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It sounds to me like your ego is out of control. You had a rough relationship, and are still attached to one 'greater' girl. So approaching these 'lesser' girls aren't a problem because you don't feel the attraction to them as much as you feel it for your ex. There for you're not putting as much on the line, so nothing to lose = no fear.

You're right, I don't think it's a good thing. Having no fear is good, but you've got it for the wrong reason. Work out the issues with your ex, discover why you care about her so much, resolve that. In the meantime...work with the girls you are approaching. Don't be SO bold to the point of offensive. Take it easy and let the interaction play out. If she likes you, she'll give you signals...you'll feel it. So push it a step further. Wait until she's caught up and is comfortable and take it another step further. Ease your way into it. Play chess with it. Make a move, then it'll be her move.
 

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Just keep on doing what you're doing .Trust me .

Do you know how many guys come and post here wanting to know how to be relaxed and turn their brains off when they talk to women"? A lot.


You already approach without hesitation and have no fear of rejection(I'm assuming)and know what you want to do. And that's the entire game right there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thanks alot guys................but i have to admit it


xblitz44x

you are the man .......let me spel it i know it inside i mean what you said but i wanted someone who can translate it to english...... i mean man you got everything right .....im actualy proud of having someone who understand...........thanks alot....
 
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