I'm so fvcking close!!!

[syncmaster]

Hey guys;
I can feel it. I don't know what it is but i can envision just taking what i want when i want. The whole "not give a fvck" attitude. The confidence of being able to do what i want when i want. The reason why some guys get laid all the time. I can see it, taste it & feel it but i don't know how to get to it. Lol - i need higher testosterone levels . I can talk circles around most people and don't have a problem approaching girls but it's the whole underlying attitude that is extremley rare. Any insight on how to go the last few meters?

 

[RedPill]

Be a winner dude. Just fvcking do it. Have goals that you want to achieve and then completely ignore anything and anyone who is not in line with you and your goals. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. At the same time, have an awareness of what's going on around you. Respect others, and recognize when you are not in a position of power. Recognize when you are letting others control your time or your actions. Inspire others with creativity, intelligence, enthusiasm, and bold action. Summon the energy to be fired up and positive about life. Take a bit of time at the end of each day and week to reflect on your goals, and what you did to improve your life.

Make the above your internal frame of mind, and live a goal-oriented way of life. Make it a constant habit to be in control of your world and I promise you the attitude and confidence you are seeking will follow. Confidence is simply a matter of being prepared and knowing what's going on. Are you confident in your ability to tie your shoes? Of course, because you're completely prepared to do so at any moment. You learned how to do it properly, and then made it a habit. Make good habits with your time, health, and planning, and you'll move through life in a confident manner. You'll have the complete confidence you are seeking when you KNOW you are on the path to reaching your goals.

Take control dude. Just fvcking do it.

 

[Inc. ©]

I know how you feel, man...since I started doing cold approaches everything has changed! I can't say I'm completely over the fear, but I cold approached and HB8 & HB9 today with little to no hesitation. They shot me down, but who cares...its so fun. Honestly its only been a handful of approaches, but the difference is now night and day. I don't care if people see me approaching girls, don't care if I get shot down, don't care at all really. Nothing bad can happen! The key for me is approaching the whole thing as a game...I don't know her, she doesn't know me, so she's just like a marketing research project or something.