"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm so close to giving up on women

Ringleader41

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Like I'm not going to chase them anymore, there's no point for me as a minority here. It makes me even more mad that minorities have trouble dating their own race now. Location matters the most, and some minorities are in favorable locations, but I'm in an unfavorable location. I'm just going to have to wait till I have the capability of traveling to a different country.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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evan12

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women see men of majority higher value than minority , but again they know they will end up settling with their men , so play of "husband material" by being rich with strong personality
 

EuropePUA

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Ringleader41 said:
Like I'm not going to chase them anymore, there's no point for me as a minority here. It makes me even more mad that minorities have trouble dating their own race now. Location matters the most, and some minorities are in favorable locations, but I'm in an unfavorable location. I'm just going to have to wait till I have the capability of traveling to a different country.

I use to think that too,

but I beat a local Spainard at his own game.

I am Asian.
 

Packers2010

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what are you going to do? try men?

dude. the game is a son of a ***** and it doesn't give back. you got to TAKE WHAT YOU WANT!

that's what i learned anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're problems are:

A) You care too much.
B) You're outcome dependent.
C) You're highly struck about your race.
D) You project a great sense of negativity.

Positive Mental Attitude mixed with a care free mindset is needed in order for you to start seeing a modicum of improvement with women.

Rejection is not that bad, I get rejected a lot and I'm white. It's myth that White men have it easy.
 

BabyFaceComplex

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This is true.

Its just part of the game to get rejected a lot, go on ****ty dates with *****es and not click with someone.

The game is completely random, women are all different want different things, I know cute girls who are dating minority guys.

I know good looking guys who get rejected like crazy.

Dating and marriage is the biggest mixed bag.

You just need to be able to deal with rejection and not care.
Honestly rejection is mostly up to the girl. Some girls are not looking to be picked up at all, some wont be open to x or y situation but only to z. (social circle, club, car, work etc.)

If you want sex then just force yourself to collect numbers without shame, it can seriously be as easy as just going up to a girl and saying hey how are you? Heres my number.
 

EuropePUA

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BabyFaceComplex said:
This is true.

Its just part of the game to get rejected a lot, go on ****ty dates with *****es and not click with someone.

The game is completely random, women are all different want different things, I know cute girls who are dating minority guys.

I know good looking guys who get rejected like crazy.

Dating and marriage is the biggest mixed bag.

You just need to be able to deal with rejection and not care.
Honestly rejection is mostly up to the girl. Some girls are not looking to be picked up at all, some wont be open to x or y situation but only to z. (social circle, club, car, work etc.)

If you want sex then just force yourself to collect numbers without shame, it can seriously be as easy as just going up to a girl and saying hey how are you? Heres my number.

Good post, its all numbers game right?

REALLY?

No because some minorities try everyday for their whole life and still get nothing.

OP has a point.
 

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well ****.. lol someone's gotta lose. better you than me.

thanks for playing, collect your prize once you exit the stage
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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