"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm so close to giving up on women

Ringleader41

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Like I'm not going to chase them anymore, there's no point for me as a minority here. It makes me even more mad that minorities have trouble dating their own race now. Location matters the most, and some minorities are in favorable locations, but I'm in an unfavorable location. I'm just going to have to wait till I have the capability of traveling to a different country.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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evan12

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women see men of majority higher value than minority , but again they know they will end up settling with their men , so play of "husband material" by being rich with strong personality
 

EuropePUA

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Ringleader41 said:
Like I'm not going to chase them anymore, there's no point for me as a minority here. It makes me even more mad that minorities have trouble dating their own race now. Location matters the most, and some minorities are in favorable locations, but I'm in an unfavorable location. I'm just going to have to wait till I have the capability of traveling to a different country.

I use to think that too,

but I beat a local Spainard at his own game.

I am Asian.
 

Packers2010

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what are you going to do? try men?

dude. the game is a son of a ***** and it doesn't give back. you got to TAKE WHAT YOU WANT!

that's what i learned anyway.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're problems are:

A) You care too much.
B) You're outcome dependent.
C) You're highly struck about your race.
D) You project a great sense of negativity.

Positive Mental Attitude mixed with a care free mindset is needed in order for you to start seeing a modicum of improvement with women.

Rejection is not that bad, I get rejected a lot and I'm white. It's myth that White men have it easy.
 

BabyFaceComplex

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This is true.

Its just part of the game to get rejected a lot, go on ****ty dates with *****es and not click with someone.

The game is completely random, women are all different want different things, I know cute girls who are dating minority guys.

I know good looking guys who get rejected like crazy.

Dating and marriage is the biggest mixed bag.

You just need to be able to deal with rejection and not care.
Honestly rejection is mostly up to the girl. Some girls are not looking to be picked up at all, some wont be open to x or y situation but only to z. (social circle, club, car, work etc.)

If you want sex then just force yourself to collect numbers without shame, it can seriously be as easy as just going up to a girl and saying hey how are you? Heres my number.
 

EuropePUA

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BabyFaceComplex said:
This is true.

Its just part of the game to get rejected a lot, go on ****ty dates with *****es and not click with someone.

The game is completely random, women are all different want different things, I know cute girls who are dating minority guys.

I know good looking guys who get rejected like crazy.

Dating and marriage is the biggest mixed bag.

You just need to be able to deal with rejection and not care.
Honestly rejection is mostly up to the girl. Some girls are not looking to be picked up at all, some wont be open to x or y situation but only to z. (social circle, club, car, work etc.)

If you want sex then just force yourself to collect numbers without shame, it can seriously be as easy as just going up to a girl and saying hey how are you? Heres my number.

Good post, its all numbers game right?

REALLY?

No because some minorities try everyday for their whole life and still get nothing.

OP has a point.
 

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well ****.. lol someone's gotta lose. better you than me.

thanks for playing, collect your prize once you exit the stage
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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