"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im skinny, any help?

nestea16

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Ive been told i am cute by a lot of girls but the fact is that im very skinny. Im 17 years old 6" and around 130. I need to gain wait because my weight has made me less confident.

Im going to join a gym soon and i was wondering if any of you had any workout tips or advice for me on how to gain wait. I have also purchased creatine to help me along the way. I try to eat more but i still dont gain a pound.

Im looking to put on about 15-20 pounds and it doesnt have to be muscle right away obviously, i just want to fill out...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ Girevik

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Eat like a bear, and lift like a monster. Eat a TON (I don't mean kill yourself by eating McDonalds all the time either - drink tons of milk, eat tons of meat and good foods)
 

Soshyopathe

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Smaller guys don't need to eat like a bear, bigger guys do if they want to grow. You just need to increase your calorie intake and do compound lifts to failure. DIESEL's bulking guide in other words.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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