"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm sick of this. Time for a change

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Hey.

So my problem is this, I'm sick of being the guy who is always alone. The number of friends i have is basically 0. Yesterday the only person i regularly hang out with called of the plans we had for the night. I decided that it would be the last time i could get bossed around by someone so easily. I am reading The Game and i got the idea to find a site like this.

Why I am here is because i want to change. I want to be able to meet girls, get new friends, loose my virginity and such. I don't want to be the guy who is socially retarded. I,m about to start the Swedish equivalence to high school. I need to change and become a more interesting person. Even though i like myself i seem to have trouble getting friends and even bigger trouble to keep them. I have only kissed one girl in my life. And when i did that i have no f**king idea how it happened because i was drunk and things just rolled along without me thinking on them.

I think i can do well on parties and i might be able to get a girl and some friends there. But without any ticket in to a party I'm stranded.
What should i do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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navyseal2101

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For starters have you read the DJ Bible? If so then your ready to begin meeting people. Do you have trouble approaching people or talking to them?
 
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No i haven't for some reason the link to it doesn't work for me.
Can you find it anywhere else?
 
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Thanks man
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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navyseal2101

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NP, after you read it come back with other questions and we can help you out with w/e you need.
 
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