"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm sick of this. Time for a change

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Hey.

So my problem is this, I'm sick of being the guy who is always alone. The number of friends i have is basically 0. Yesterday the only person i regularly hang out with called of the plans we had for the night. I decided that it would be the last time i could get bossed around by someone so easily. I am reading The Game and i got the idea to find a site like this.

Why I am here is because i want to change. I want to be able to meet girls, get new friends, loose my virginity and such. I don't want to be the guy who is socially retarded. I,m about to start the Swedish equivalence to high school. I need to change and become a more interesting person. Even though i like myself i seem to have trouble getting friends and even bigger trouble to keep them. I have only kissed one girl in my life. And when i did that i have no f**king idea how it happened because i was drunk and things just rolled along without me thinking on them.

I think i can do well on parties and i might be able to get a girl and some friends there. But without any ticket in to a party I'm stranded.
What should i do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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navyseal2101

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For starters have you read the DJ Bible? If so then your ready to begin meeting people. Do you have trouble approaching people or talking to them?
 
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No i haven't for some reason the link to it doesn't work for me.
Can you find it anywhere else?
 
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Thanks man
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NP, after you read it come back with other questions and we can help you out with w/e you need.
 
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