I'm sick of this **** and wish to change

[Wolfbones]

maybe its the pent up testosterone thats making me type/feel this but i am sick and tired of knowing that my oneitis is having sex out there while i am here just wasting my time away behind this laptop and hoping for a change even though i dont do sh!t. everywhere i turn it's always about sex, sex, and guess again... sex! and it makes me mad knowing that my oneitis is out there doing it too ...yes! i know i'm a chump for getting mad at that

why? because i am actually afraid of making a move. i spot a lot of cute girls that i would love to know better but i just cant seem to shake away the thought of them rejecting me because i think i dont look good enough for them, which is bullsh!t btw. i only think that way because my oneitis rejected me few years back saying looks dont really matter but they do a little.

anyone can help me out? shoutout to playher man & thegambino for trying to motivate me but i just cant grab my balls together and just fvcking do it like you people on here always do.

tips are very welcome ,i would appreciate it. youre not feeding a troll here, just a very serious, frustrated and very jealous 18 year old dude that gets no action whatsoever.

 

[Vice]

Sounds like youre at a good point in life: frustration. PM me your email and telephone number, and your FB account. Write to me your habits and beliefs. Im about to get back out there, an mentoring simeone will help me get back up to speed as well as help you out. Your challenges are easy to fix, believe me.

Do it only if youre actually willing to learn.

 

[Bizzle13]

You're here. And that's the best possible start. As they say make a change or remain the same. My housemate is going through a similar thing but doesn't have the balls or brains to entertain the red pill. Good on you man, every journey begins with a step.

I get what you're saying about sex, it is everywhere you turn but if you concentrate on you then you block all that shït out.

 

[Mr Wright]

Congrats, it's sounds like you've pretty much hit rock bottom so the only way is up!

Could write a wall about the struggle I went through, if you want it, I'll write it but I don't really think it'll help because you've seen it all before.

The first thing I would do is to just get out of the house and off the websites which fill your head with all these thoughts.

Secondly I would go shopping(with a girl if possible), pick up some fashion mags, choose a style and go out and buy a cheap alternative that fits well. Nothing gives me confidence like a new pair of clothes.

Eventually to get over this you will have to immerse yourself in this, going in half heartedly will be more annoying the long run.

 

[Jair213]

maybe its the pent up testosterone thats making me type/feel this but i am sick and tired of knowing that my oneitis is having sex out there while i am here just wasting my time away behind this laptop and hoping for a change even though i dont do sh!t. everywhere i turn it's always about sex, sex, and guess again... sex! and it makes me mad knowing that my oneitis is out there doing it too ...yes! i know i'm a chump for getting mad at that

why? because i am actually afraid of making a move. i spot a lot of cute girls that i would love to know better but i just cant seem to shake away the thought of them rejecting me because i think i dont look good enough for them, which is bullsh!t btw. i only think that way because my oneitis rejected me few years back saying looks dont really matter but they do a little.

anyone can help me out? shoutout to playher man & thegambino for trying to motivate me but i just cant grab my balls together and just fvcking do it like you people on here always do.

tips are very welcome ,i would appreciate it. youre not feeding a troll here, just a very serious, frustrated and very jealous 18 year old dude that gets no action whatsoever.

watts your hobbys like? do you hit the gym?

you mean your jealous of other guys getting b!shes? snap out that bullsh!tt thats as beta as you could get.

your hoping for a change without doing nothing? c'mon man. you need to start making moves.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

OP when was the last time you had a girlfriend or got laid? Or hasn't happened yet?

 

[_sideways_]

Sex and girls are all that and a bag of chips Bro...chill out...if u already know that its b.s. how everything is all about sex and that bothers u, point ur eyes in a different direction....read a book, turn the tv off...learn to draw....whatever it is u want. Just know that sex sells so yea its everywhere.

 

[Wolfbones]

@Vice

pm has been sent!

@Bizzle13

i hope your housemate takes a turn for the better. i know what it feels like and its lame.

i am glad you know what i mean. i do not necessarily care for sex but it's bothersome when you yourself havent done a thing unlike your oneitis. i guess you can only understand what i mean if you go through the same thing


@Mr Wright

already preparing myself to get on the top of this ladder, but i still havent made the first step yet. you can write your stories if you would like that. i'm sure it would help me

the websites you are talking about are just social media. fb, yt, twitter, etc
thanks for the tips btw!

@Jair213

i dont have hobbies and dont work out, but i plan on doing so.
and no, i'm not jealous of other guys getting b!shes at all. i'm talking about my oneitis having sex which drives me mad. but like i said in the op, i know thats chumpy of me.

i want to change, thats why i am here and asking for your help!

@JaegerPilot217

never. i never tried making a move until this year.(not including the part about me putting all the cards on the table for my oneitis because i was a little ***** and "couldnt take it anymore") but i want this to change, hence this thread but it's just a frustrating thing you know? i didnt care about having a gf or sex until i discovered my oneitis has been having sex. keep in mind that i'm 18, so we're still young.

@_sideways_

its not that sex in general bothers me. i just have a hard time coping with the fact that my oneitis has been having sex and probably now too as we are speaking and that is what bothers me, what makes me to fonally make a change.

 

[Bizzle13]

I've been there too mate. Gf of 6 years, even live together - she was 'the one' at the time. We broke up on good terms but I started to regret it around the time she started seeing other guys. Found out she fücked someone else (she'd only been with me previously) and I got that familiar drop in my stomach, only for a short while and I quickly realised she's getting on with her life I've gotta get on with mine - I lost a lot of weight an started thinking about what I seriously wanted to do and be. Since then I've found out she was serious with some guy and I wished her the best, and when I found out she was pregnant I saw her and told her she'd make a great mom.

So there is a light at the end of the tunnel bro but I couldn't of done that without SS and especially no contact (at least for a year or so till I felt I was over it). You'll be fine man you're I'm the right place and if you eve wanna talk feel free to inbox me, I wish my housemate was at your stage :/