"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im sick of the games .. Im done

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Oka so let me first off apologize for this d half drunken rant but.... It's time to set **** straight, Last year was one of the best years of my life when it came to women ... I was surrounded by women 24/7, my confidence was huge, I had a lot of friends but I was turning into a prick ... there is fine line between being arrogant and being ****y ...I was arrogant and I didn't like the man I was becoming, but I got girls 24/7 /...but I stopped..I broke it off with this beautiful girl I was dating because I messed around with two other women while I was with her and it was eating me up... this could have been one of the worst miskaes of my life but I’ve learned from it .

Towards the end of last year I started messing around with this cute brunet...she stayed over a few nights a week but we decided to stay unofficial because we headed home for the summer and I go to school in a different state then where I live ......so fast forward to now ... four weeks ago she tells me we cant hang out because she does not trust her self around me. She has feelings for her ex-boyfriend...blah...then last week she wants to eat lunch with me and have dinner and then last night she wants to watch a movie at my place ...well I cave and invite her over...She stays over and then today freezes on me... will not call me back...I am becoming the guy girls f*** but want date and to be honest I think I would rather be the AFC freind... because at least I can be happy in knowing i am doing the right thing...I am tired of the games ... i am done ...I know who I am ...I know where I want to go...I am not changing for anyone ...and I am not being the f*** buddy anymore .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess being a FB is a mirroring extreme to being an AFC. Extremes are bad!
 
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we all have our own path to follow

I hope yours leads to happiness.
 
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Simple Solution. Don't have sex with her. Being a surrogate vibrator is akin to being an emotional tampon in the sense that you're allowing yourself to be used for her gratification. If you think they only want you in their stable, and you're bothered by just being their stud, why do it?

Besides, ten bucks says that if you like this chick (I'd next her anyway for her unresolved issues) making yourself unavailable to her should get her to focus a bit more on where she's at with you and her ex which, another ten bucks, says is the reason she's playing icy/hot.

A DJ is a slave to nothing, least of all sex.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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