"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm sick of rock bottom. Time to BUST OUT!

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Not long ago I posted a thread in which I discussed hitting rock bottom all around.

After a long time of wallowing in clinical depression, unemployment, self-destructive behavior/obesity, laziness, and complete AFCdom, I've decided I'm sick of all this sh!t. It's time to make some moves. After much searching, I finally found a job that is convenient for me and doesn't pay too shabby. That's the pillar of it all. From there, I will afford the renewal of my gym membership which went unused FAR too long, a strict diet and exercise routine, and as that falls into place, there will be new wardrobe and the "fat clothes" will be ditched. From there, it's on to DJ boot camp, getting out there, and working on my game to get some female action. It's not going to be easy, but nothing worthwhile in life ever is. However, I'm not just going to do things based on meeting and attracting women, either. I'm also back into composing and playing music on a serious level, with plans to play live again...this has been a passion of mine for most of my life. It's one of the things that made me feel the most alive and excited, and I can't believe I let that part of me just slow down and sit still for so long. I also plan on taking up martial arts when I'm in good enough shape.

I'm through phukking around. Life begins here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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good luck

Good luck. I've been working on recovering my life over the last year (one year ago I was clinically depressed and suicidal). It's slow going, but it steadily gets better.
You can do it :cool:
 

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Awesome. I applaud you. If you live life to the fullest the rest comes easy....:up:
 
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