"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm sick of rock bottom. Time to BUST OUT!

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Not long ago I posted a thread in which I discussed hitting rock bottom all around.

After a long time of wallowing in clinical depression, unemployment, self-destructive behavior/obesity, laziness, and complete AFCdom, I've decided I'm sick of all this sh!t. It's time to make some moves. After much searching, I finally found a job that is convenient for me and doesn't pay too shabby. That's the pillar of it all. From there, I will afford the renewal of my gym membership which went unused FAR too long, a strict diet and exercise routine, and as that falls into place, there will be new wardrobe and the "fat clothes" will be ditched. From there, it's on to DJ boot camp, getting out there, and working on my game to get some female action. It's not going to be easy, but nothing worthwhile in life ever is. However, I'm not just going to do things based on meeting and attracting women, either. I'm also back into composing and playing music on a serious level, with plans to play live again...this has been a passion of mine for most of my life. It's one of the things that made me feel the most alive and excited, and I can't believe I let that part of me just slow down and sit still for so long. I also plan on taking up martial arts when I'm in good enough shape.

I'm through phukking around. Life begins here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good luck

Good luck. I've been working on recovering my life over the last year (one year ago I was clinically depressed and suicidal). It's slow going, but it steadily gets better.
You can do it :cool:
 

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Awesome. I applaud you. If you live life to the fullest the rest comes easy....:up:
 
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