Im sick of my own mother

[Crissco]

Long story short. My mothers a complete b1tch at times. I give her credit for a lot of things and all the sh*t shes been through, but im sick of her sh1t.

-Parents took in my 2 cousins when I was 10

-Parents got divorced 4 years later b/c my father cheated

-My brought me to a physiologist b/c she thought I needed help, when all I needed was a father/friends, she basically tought me to run away from my problems and not face them head on. Which I usually always do anyway. Despite her un-logicallness

-Im starting to treat her like anyone women but the reactions im getting from her are weird. Its easier to see her act like a mother then an sl*t. I hate to refer to my mother as that but that's what she was when she was younger. Both of my parents are *****s.

-She makes valid points and I take them for what it is but im sick of her trying to ***** me around. When I dont listen she just gets pissed and walks up stairs.

-When I bring other girls who are better looking around she gets self conscious. Says I cant sleep with a girl in my room. Are you ****ing kidding me. But despite what she says I still do anyway

-Im 22 and don't have money to move out. I have bills I have to pay off and just got into an accident 2 months ago, now I have no car.

How would you handle this??

Crissco

 

[Don Israel]

Although anyone reading your post is thinking of how unfortunate it is that your mother handled situations that way, I hope you don't hate her.

She obviously tried HER best in trying to raise you well and your feelings of being sick of her are justified. .

If you can't bring a girl over, keep doing it in secret...your a man after all.





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[CarlitosWay]

Long story short. My mothers a complete b1tch at times. I give her credit for a lot of things and all the sh*t shes been through, but im sick of her sh1t.

-Parents took in my 2 cousins when I was 10

-Parents got divorced 4 years later b/c my father cheated

-My brought me to a physiologist b/c she thought I needed help, when all I needed was a father/friends, she basically tought me to run away from my problems and not face them head on. Which I usually always do anyway. Despite her un-logicallness

-Im starting to treat her like anyone women but the reactions im getting from her are weird. Its easier to see her act like a mother then an sl*t. I hate to refer to my mother as that but that's what she was when she was younger. Both of my parents are *****s.

-She makes valid points and I take them for what it is but im sick of her trying to ***** me around. When I dont listen she just gets pissed and walks up stairs.

-When I bring other girls who are better looking around she gets self conscious. Says I cant sleep with a girl in my room. Are you ****ing kidding me. But despite what she says I still do anyway

-Im 22 and don't have money to move out. I have bills I have to pay off and just got into an accident 2 months ago, now I have no car.

How would you handle this??

Crissco

Pay off your bills and join the military (Yeah I'm going to the Navy towards the end of the year !).....or go back to school and get a degree (associates degree or something )in a field you'll have no problem finding real good work after and move out?

Work two jobs and move out? I mean it's going to take drastic measures to see drastic results....If I were you I'd find another job, get a car, stack up at least 6 months worth of wages and move out with some one, a friend preferably(split rent/ not a gf though bad idea).

 

[Crissco]

Pay off your bills and join the military (Yeah I'm going to the Navy towards the end of the year !).....or go back to school and get a degree (associates degree or something )in a field you'll have no problem finding real good work after and move out?

Work two jobs and move out? I mean it's going to take drastic measures to see drastic results....If I were you I'd find another job, get a car, stack up at least 6 months worth of wages and move out with some one, a friend preferably(split rent/ not a gf though bad idea).

I like your second idea better bro. Plus the going to school on the weekends. I have to think about the long run also bro. Im thinking about something in sales.

 

[CarlitosWay]

I like your second idea better bro. Plus the going to school on the weekends. I have to think about the long run also bro. Im thinking about something in sales.

Whatever you like..Me myself. I enjoy socializing and helping people in anything health related...so the health field is my niche my purpose so to say.

Find yourself a purpose in life and capitalize on it!!!

Like from that one movie "Nothing worse in this world then talent wasted" probably way off but close lol ("A Bronx Tale)

 

[Phat]

Man, you really need to get over this shiit. Your 22 years old now, don't hide it, don't keep it bottled inside, let it go, cry if you have to. Then move on and build your self a life, so your mom will start treating you like a man. Its your life, control it, and go where you want in life. You need a plan first.

I know whats it like to have divorced parents when I was 9. I know what your going through. I'm 20 years old .I don't come from a wealthy family. I was kicked out the house when I was 18. I was homeless for 3 months living in the streets of Philadelphia. All I had was my backpack and laptop. And I begged every day in Philadelphia and I made $5,000. And I started my business and I make $97,000 a month now. I am thankful I had parents who kicked me in my ass. You just got to be a man about life.

 

[Julian]

Your mother is probably sick and tired and dissapointed in you as a son. You walk around thinking you can do whatever you want while your still being supported by your mother at age 22. Take responsibility and move out, you are not entitled to anything. Your mom doesnt want his son fking skanks in the bedroom next door I cant blame her. Thats freaking disgusting and disrespectful. Sneaking chicks into your room at mommys house bullfukkinsh1t girl!

Start acting like a grown ass man and not a spoiled little b1tch, actually be proactive in your life and rise above the BS your creating. You should be treating your mother with the utmost respect son.

 

[mustfirstregister]

if i were your dad i will slap you on the face 3 times.

 

[Tiguere]

Lol you make 97,000 a month?????? Yea right

 

[Desdinova]

Moved to AE...

 

[Crissco]

Whatever you like..Me myself. I enjoy socializing and helping people in anything health related...so the health field is my niche my purpose so to say.

Find yourself a purpose in life and capitalize on it!!!

Like from that one movie "Nothing worse in this world then talent wasted" probably way off but close lol ("A Bronx Tale)

Exactly how I am. I love the health field. I'm actually an ISSA Certified Trainer. I just gotta renew my license.

Your mother is probably sick and tired and dissapointed in you as a son. You walk around thinking you can do whatever you want while your still being supported by your mother at age 22. Take responsibility and move out, you are not entitled to anything. Your mom doesnt want his son fking skanks in the bedroom next door I cant blame her. Thats freaking disgusting and disrespectful. Sneaking chicks into your room at mommys house bullfukkinsh1t girl!

Start acting like a grown ass man and not a spoiled little b1tch, actually be proactive in your life and rise above the BS your creating. You should be treating your mother with the utmost respect son.

You know what bro. Out of every post in the thread, this is the one that made the most sense to me. Thank You

 

[backbreaker]

Your mother is probably sick and tired and dissapointed in you as a son. You walk around thinking you can do whatever you want while your still being supported by your mother at age 22. Take responsibility and move out, you are not entitled to anything. Your mom doesnt want his son fking skanks in the bedroom next door I cant blame her. Thats freaking disgusting and disrespectful. Sneaking chicks into your room at mommys house bullfukkinsh1t girl!

Start acting like a grown ass man and not a spoiled little b1tch, actually be proactive in your life and rise above the BS your creating. You should be treating your mother with the utmost respect son.

this is pure gold.

dude do you know how ****ing good you have it? and you are complaining about not being able to **** women under your mom's roof? are you fcking serious?

you know what I got for my 18th birthday? (no joke).. LUGGAGE!

get the fck out!

both my parents abide by the rule that grown men are not allowed to live under the roof.

they did the same thing to my little brother.

i hated it at the time but in hindsight.. best thing that eve rhappened to me. my two best friends who are older than me both still live with ther parents.

dude you are fvcking 22 years old.. you are grown man..

let me put this in perspective

by the age of 20, alexander the great had conqured the known world.

By the age of 18, Nero Claudius Caesar Augustus Germanicus (Nero) had risen to be emperor of all of rome.

By the time Michael Dell was 22, Dell computers was out of infancy and well on it's way to being a public company..









and you are complaining becuase you can't fvck sluts in the room next to your mom. bet she's proud.

 

[Credos]

let me put this in perspective

by the age of 20, alexander the great had conqured the known world.

By the age of 18, Nero Claudius Caesar Augustus Germanicus (Nero) had risen to be emperor of all of rome.

By the time Michael Dell was 22, Dell computers was out of infancy and well on it's way to being a public company

Were any of us born with a kingdom? No... not a perspective.... Was I born son of a Caesar... No None of us are....

And about the dell story, well, it has nothing to do with the current story...

This reminds me of the "american" dream, where everybody is promised to be a rockstar, a movie talent... Right... It's a ****ing joke...

You are what you make of yourself... And that dell guy just put his talents to good use, which has nothing to do with somebodies parents...

Though what you say is true, your arguments are of no use to this thread...

 

[Wiesman44]

Lol you make 97,000 a month?????? Yea right

That sounds a bit like jealousy to me. Who cares if he doesn't make $97k a month. If he does, congrats.