"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm sick of being an AFC. I'm starting DJ Boot Camp tonight.

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I know that boot camp will help make me into the confident and effective man whom I want to be. I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Only my fears hold me back. I promise to myself, and also to the members of sosuave, to completely follow through with the requirements of boot camp.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I finished reading all of the articles for week one. Going to start on the exercises tomorrow.
 

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Dont let us down. Dont let anything stop you. Stumble but dont fall.
 
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