Hmmmm? It sounds like you're chasing after fake, cliquey, so-called popular girls. That's probably why, as a good looking guy, you're complaining so much. They're probably hot, right? It's already known that they're young, immature, and flighty. Probably the same type I chased after and tried to wife up for years... Dumb, fleeting, shallow *****es.
Another guess is that they're insecure, dysfunctional, suffer from low self-esteem, are troubled, have issues, etc. The bad girls, or just plain ol' losers...
Here's what you need to realize: when you chase after a certain kind of woman - all of this comes with the territory... it's part of the package. It's not going to change. Either you accept it and adapt, or change the kind of women you're going after. THEY are not going to change. They're going to respond to the bad boy douchebag fake alpha "challenge", be repelled by normal, decent guys, possess no sense, depth or logic, piss you off, play games, string you along, complain and cause drama, contradict themselves, play the victim, act selfish and entitled, etc, etc, etc. This is who they are. They're retarded and useless. Even ones who aren't attractive - a loser is still a loser. Stop taking them seriously, and complaining when you don't / can't take them seriously. It's part of the deal. They're not LTR material.