"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm sick and tired......

ImpatientFire

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I'm sick and tired of feeling sorry for myself! I'm tired of seeing an attractive woman and letting the opportunity to approach her pass me buy. :mad: I'm a man for God's sake!(a good looking successful one for that matter :cool: ) I've let too many women pass me by because I was feeling down or I felt like I didn't have what it took for them to want me :down: .

Enough is enough! From hence forth, I won't let past rejections or feeling down hold me back. If I see a woman I want, I'm gonna approach her. Fvck the consequences. Life is too short to be thinking about crap like whether she likes me or not.

I'll keep you guys posted on my future adventures. No more Mr. Nice Guy for me :mad: :woo: .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Badmannaz

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^^^:crackup:

join the rest of us!!!


word for word what you said is the reason i've started to change...2006 will be my year to CONQUER ALL!!!!!!!!!!


MUUUUWAAHAHAHAHAHAHA

MUWAHAHAHA

MUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUWAAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! *FaRTz*:moon:
 

ImpatientFire

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Well, its official now and I'm a Don Juan in the making. I'm used to only approaching women when I feel good. I'm not gonna do that, I'll do it however bad I feel from now on :D . Screw the consequeces. *stamps feet on the ground*
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brian20o2

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Originally posted by ImpatientFire
*sips wine* :cheer:
plz stop. your making me thirsty. and i cant have any untill my parents are gone or asleep. d*** laws against underaged drinking.
 

ImpatientFire

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
plz stop. your making me thirsty. and i cant have any untill my parents are gone or asleep. d*** laws against underaged drinking.
LOL! *hands over a bottle of wine* There ya go, knock yourself out :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DinoCassanova

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Originally posted by EquityPrivate
A toast... to the first day in the rest of your life!

>>> Well said ! Congratulations on reclaiming full Manhood status. I'll drink to that as well. Salut !

~Dino
 
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