"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im seriously pissed! need serious advice!!

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I was in this hookah bar with a couple of my friends(we are best friends) and i start getting a headache. So I put my head on the table and these mother****ers(my friends) keep telling me to go ask for beer n tell me to do ****. So basically im feeling sick n they can see that but still they tell me to do ****. To be honest, i need ur opinion cuz im rly fckin pissed at them and when ur in that mood u cant think straight. Im really close friends with these guys but right now i wanna fckinn stop seeing them. They both start acting like amogs n fckin cutting me off n ****, uve proabbly seen it its like the 2 friends go on the same team and they **** talk u. Usually we rnt like this but i feel they went too far. Im not sure wat to do, maybe im taking this too seriously....but like wtf...ive known these guys like a few years now n we usually all respect 1 another. But this is a little fckin too much. Do i ignore this incident or do i just tell both of them to fck off.


Any advice is appreciated...fck my head hurts
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Analyzeit

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Were they doing that just because you obviously had a headache?? like i got mates like that, and not one of us is an AMOG just we all just even but when one shows a weekness, we kinda gang up on them kinda sick, but its a 2 way street, i wouldn't take it serious but if they this like normal which i dont think they are because you say they good friends, just ignore it what goes around comes around
 

TheEnergizer

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yeah ive had my 2 best friends team up on me like that before. just dont get pissed or do anything to push them away and things will go back to normal. stay positive, and forget about this.
 

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hey man if u have the gut feeling that they are using u then **** them

YOU ARE A PICK UP ARTIST!

u make new friends everyday man
 

dannowillbookem

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how about you quit being a serious little *****. if i was with a group of guys and one complained about having a headache and put his head down on the table i would steal his cell phone so i could call his mommy to pick him up.

game face.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spade

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Wtf's wrong with u dannowillbookem, read the dam thread again foo!. I put my head on the table cuz after a few hours of hookah u get a lil headache. I didnt complan. If u dont got advice dnt post shyt! Btw Energizer i took ur advice n me and the guys r good now.
 

Scars

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Friends can be *******s sometimes. I'm sure they didn't mean to do any harm. It's if they're intentionally trying to put you down that's when things become a problem. You don't want to hang around people who make you feel bad and hold you back from growing.. but just remember that everyone has their days.
 

dannowillbookem

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Spade said:
Wtf's wrong with u dannowillbookem, read the dam thread again foo!. I put my head on the table cuz after a few hours of hookah u get a lil headache. I didnt complan. If u dont got advice dnt post shyt! Btw Energizer i took ur advice n me and the guys r good now.
I have no idea what the **** a "foo!" is but it sounds like something a whiney ***** would say.

I read it before, and I read it again. You sound like a downer to be around and I'd pick at you for fun.
 

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I have a feeling that something similar to me is happening to you now.

When i first started learning about these social dynamics , i started analyzing every movement. I would focus on bad comments and jokes that people made on me. I was thinking WHY IS THIS HAPPENING , THEY DON"T RESPECT ME blla blla. But its a normal things. Friends joke around.

So , just let it go. Smile with it , and when they see that it doesnt bother you , they will stop joking.
 

Spade

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dannowillbookem, go fuk urself.....why the fuk am i even wasting my time talking to this mo fo.

Btw daddy the pimp, ur right man sometimes the best thing to do is to smile and ignore.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Allurre

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Man up, and tell them that you'd appreciate it if they acted a bit more maturely around you.

For the meantime, quit wasting your time and energy being pissed off about them. Focus on doing something productive with your life.
 
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