"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Suicide

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So I nailed a friend of mine at a party this weekend. I know, I'm an idiot.

We were both pretty wasted.

My problem now is I'm not really attracted to her and I can't see us going anywhere together--but I see her all the time. So the next morning she apologises for kissing some other guy, giving me the impression that she's expecting me to care. I told her she can do whatever she wants.

So what do I do now? I mean, I don't want a relationship, I see her all the time and I get the impression she's attached some meaning to our little get togther.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Guerrero

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Haha! Just tell her that you don't feel that way about her, but you don't regret being with her ;)


And you don't want anything to change between you two.
 

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^^couldnt have said it better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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