"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm really starting to be pissed off at drunk fvcks,aggressive homeless and various

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Its getting more and more annoying to see drunk lowlifes, and homeless getting more and more aggressive, they were once only begging for money now they also chase you and instists especially if you are walking with young women.

A drunk homeless asked me for a cigarette and I told him I had none and kept walking, then he standed up followed us for few metres then let himself fall on me but I know for sure it was not because he was drunk, the he said "sorry sir" and went back to sit with the others.

Today again 3 drunk low lifes were walking in front of me and sometime turning around to check me and the girl with me, so we passed in front of us an one of them hit the back of my feet almost forcing the shoe away, more like kids do then laughting about it.

In the moment this stuff happens I was unprepared and didnt realize it, then few seconds later I felt like going back and kill them, I dont look skinny or such and dont have people disrespecting me from years so I guess they pick on people walking with girls.

Is there any way to hit them before they get close without having legal conseguences like saying they were getting close and I was concerned about my safety? any trick I should know?

I know that fights should be avoided but guess the choice is not mine anymore.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get a walking stick and learn how to fight with it. If approached, get into the ready stance and say"Don;'t try it". Your game face should be enough. If it's not, make the first swing at the side of his knee. If a second strike is required (unlikely as hell if you have a proper, hollow metal, 3 sided "stick)" strike at his elbow.
 

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Learn Martial Arts, you won't feel so threatened... but if in America, maybe its better to carry a stun gun.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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