"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm ready to get laid again. Let's see how long it takes.

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I'm just saying, most people are good for something. She is offering him a social plan B on a silver platter.

You have to get the whole, she is good for one thing or nothing, mentality out of your head. Otherwise you are a slave to your need for validation (and or sex)... AND lonely on nights you COULD BE hanging out with hot latin chicks and at the same time enjoying the benefits of being out in the night, and putting yourself in destiny's path (this will never ever be your living room).
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That's very true. However I don't have the idea of "women are good for one thing" mindset. I have a "women are good for me for MANY things" mindset.

Currently, I have no desire to have female friends. They contribute as much as women I'm romantically involved with currently; not much.

Don't get me wrong, if friendship happens then it happens. I don't, however, go out of my way to make it happen. I don't avoid it if I think the girl would be good to be friends with.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright I'll play your game.

How should I reply to her "I'm going to sleep" text?
 
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Alright I'll play your game.

How should I reply to her "I'm going to sleep" text?
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Ech, she's really looking for FRIENDSHIP validation right now, I'm telling you!

Don't reply! For the love of God don't reply!

If she ask if she's going out with you and HER friends DON'T REPLY!

ugh. How annoying of her.

Edit: If you don't want to go out with her and her friends, don't do it. If you don't feel it you're going to have a miserable time.

If you mediate and try to change your outlook, then you just might have fun.

Take a few deep breaths and decide what would be best for YOU.
 
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Ech, she's really looking for FRIENDSHIP validation right now, I'm telling you!

Don't reply! For the love of God don't reply!

If she ask if she's going out with you and HER friends DON'T REPLY!

ugh. How annoying of her.
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Alright I do agree that she needs to be ignored for awhile.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I personally think ignoring her isn't going to do much, because I doubt she cares that much.

I think you should use her as a social option. Maybe you can even make her buy you drinks. You should go out with her and her friends (if you think it will be fun), and put HER in the friendzone. Don't act like you like her that way AT ALL.
 
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Ech, she's really looking for FRIENDSHIP validation right now, I'm telling you!

Don't reply! For the love of God don't reply!

If she ask if she's going out with you and HER friends DON'T REPLY!

ugh. How annoying of her.

Edit: If you don't want to go out with her and her friends, don't do it. If you don't feel it you're going to have a miserable time.

If you mediate and try to change your outlook, then you just might have fun.

Take a few deep breaths and decide what would be best for YOU.
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She texted me again


"you are ridiculous"

hahahaha... this is bugging her she's losing sleep.
 
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Hahaha! Yeah who's HUNTING now?!

Eh?! EH!?!

Keep her on ignore. It's clearly bothering her. She wants games, she'll get them.
 
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Hahaha! Yeah who's HUNTING now?!

Eh?! EH!?!

Keep her on ignore. It's clearly bothering her. She wants games, she'll get them.
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Well, I pushed her maybe I should pull a little now.
 
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Iqqi PM'd me and called me a loser. You mad! lol

BTW Iqqi, clear out your PM's so I can let you know I placed you on ignore.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Iqqi PM'd me and called me a loser. BTW Iqqi, clear out your PM's so I can let you know I put you on ignore.
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That is because you have tried to PM me about 32 times in the last two hours, when I have kept my PM box full ON PURPOSE to avoid your harrassment. ;)

You'll never learn!

MNIN for the past two hours.


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So what's your race, MN?

You and Iqqi are acting awfully shadiy right now. Why in the BLUE hell is the dirty laundry between you two being aired out here?

Edit: 32 times? Really?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So what's your race, MN?

You and Iqqi are acting awfully shadiy right now. Why in the BLUE hell is the dirty laundry between you two being aired out here?

Edit: 32 times? Really?
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She's lying. It doesn't tell you how many times someone tried to PM you.
 
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Forget it....I'm putting her on ignore so I don't get sucked into her drama and flames anymore..

Let's carry on what we were talking about before Iqqi intruded.
 
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Actually, I don't need any more advice. I will be back next week after I hit that a$$ this weekend with a huge smile on my face.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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