"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm ready to get laid again. Let's see how long it takes.

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My Name is Nobody said:
Good. And I'm thinking, "what a b!tch." I could be completely over reacting, but the way she has been cold, and then the 3am text is making me wonder what fool she is taking me for, or just messing with me. Who the hell knows.
I dunno, I mean...


Did you even consider that it was a BOOTY CALL!?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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iqqi said:
I dunno, I mean...


Did you even consider that it was a BOOTY CALL!?

No, it wasn't. She was replying to my text from earlier in the evening around 8pm.. she had to let me know @ 3am that she just "returned home" from a "friends house".
 
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iqqi said:
I dunno, I mean...


Did you even consider that it was a BOOTY CALL!?

You're right... I could have been all wrong. I better call her right now and apologize!


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What have you got to lose telling her that? You'll get a refusal from a girl who didn't seem that interested in the first place. Nothing to lose.
I tried telling her to come alone last time and she didn't listen. I'm glad I nexted her. I'm not waiting around for this woman and wasting any more time.

Maybe she'll tell her friend I like her, and I'll hear from the friend. You never know.
 
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She's baaaack!

She just texted me

"where? when? friday at night"

What the hell does that mean? Anyone feel like helping me stir this nest up tonight? lol..
 

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"Don't you mean 'where, when and WHO'? THIS place at THIS time. Just ME and YOU only. Let me know if that works for you. Works great for me."

Do it.

Do it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Don't you mean 'where, when and WHO'? THIS place at THIS time. Just ME and YOU only. Let me know if that works for you. Works great for me."

Do it.

Do it.

Well, whatever we did last night seemed to work, I didn't think I would hear from her again but sometimes the aggressive approach works...Let me think about it for a few minutes.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Where should I tell her to meet me, my place?

Hm. Damn. That might be too aggressive. Coffee or your place?

Hmm.

"My place".

Do it.
 
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Hm. Damn. That might be too aggressive. Coffee or your place?

Hmm.

"My place".

Do it.

We already did coffee.. my place it is... I don't care if it works, I don't even think she's serious. She was thrown for a loop last night because I stopped k!ssing her ass.
 

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"My place" it is then!!

The challenge by MNIN!! Will this indecisive attention wh0re take the challenge or will she not accept!? Either way the road to getting booty should be a really slobber-knocker! We'll hear the answer, coming up NEXT!!

*cuts to a commercial*
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"My place" it is then!!

The challenge by MNIN!! Will this indecisive attention wh0re take the challenge or will she not accept!? Either way the road to getting booty should be a really slobber-knocker! We'll hear the answer, coming up NEXT!!

*cuts to a commercial*

DUN DUN DUN

Message sent baby!
 
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Good God. Now this should be interesting!
I sent this:

"Don't you mean 'where, when and WHO'? My place at 8pm. Just me and you. Let me know if that works for you. Works great for me."


Not bad ThunderMav!
 

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Seems you've been injected with the "Maverick virus". Hehehe

"Thunder's Maverick Virus".

I love it. Whatever the outcome, you stood your ground and you didn't put up with a friend's outing only. You let her know, without being a puss, what you wanted. Whether she likes it or not, the feeling that she can't shake from herself is RESPECT for you.

:cheer: :box: :rockon:

Edit: I'll be expecting some rep points IF this work out. HehehahahahHAHAHAHA

Edit 2: Oh! NEVERMIND! hahahaha
 
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Seems you've been injected with the "Maverick virus". Hehehe

"Thunder's Maverick Virus".

I love it. Whatever the outcome, you stood your ground and you didn't put up with a friend's outing only. You let her know, without being a puss, what you wanted. Whether she likes it or not, the feeling that she can't shake from herself is RESPECT for you.

:cheer: :box: :rockon:

Edit: I'll be expecting some rep points IF this work out. HehehahahahHAHAHAHA

Edit 2: Oh! NEVERMIND! hahahaha

If being aggressive worked last night I don't see why it would stop working now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seems you've been injected with the "Maverick virus". Hehehe

"Thunder's Maverick Virus".

I love it. Whatever the outcome, you stood your ground and you didn't put up with a friend's outing only. You let her know, without being a puss, what you wanted. Whether she likes it or not, the feeling that she can't shake from herself is RESPECT for you.

:cheer: :box: :rockon:

Edit: I'll be expecting some rep points IF this work out. HehehahahahHAHAHAHA

Edit 2: Oh! NEVERMIND! hahahaha

OMG LAME

She just replied

"What?"


She's playing dumb.
 

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Awww hell NO! No no no don't fall for this shit.

Don't respond!!

Hm...*evil grin*

OR you could say "you OBVIOUSLY didn't get my last message last night if you're saying 'what?' What are we, junior highschool kids? Do I have to pass you a note? Hahahaha ^_~"

The "hahaha" and the wink is really important. Bring her UP to your level. She's on a different page. Turn the page to YOUR chapter. REFRAME, MUTHAF*CKA!!
 

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Yeah, either ignore or be witty with that last reply I gave you.

Man, she KNOWS what she doing.

Time to play THE GAME.

Edit: Sorry, I've been watching wrestling for the past hour or so. My replies are very wrestle-centric.

Edit 2: Did you send a reply yet?
 
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I'm choosing ignore. She can play dumb because she is still learning English. Make her keep texting me. She will definitely not understand anything witty.
 

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I knew this was going to happen.

But don't think I'm going to save you now from the rest. You are just getting played like a divorced Ken doll. Sucker.

Apologize or die.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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