"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm ready to ask out a girl for the first time!

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Holy ****. I don't see any solid advice in any of these posts.

Dude. Next time you go in. Walk up to her. A simple "hey" will work. Don't stop yourself, otherwise a rush of anxiety will probably overcome you(if it hasn't already). Walk up say hi. Talk about anything. ****ing aliens work. After a few minutes get her number. Say we should get lunch on xxx if you want to. Understand that there is a high chance of failing. As long as you do it you succeeded. Then go do it to 10 more girls and tell me why she was so special.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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apec said:
Holy ****. I don't see any solid advice in any of these posts.

Dude. Next time you go in. Walk up to her. A simple "hey" will work. Don't stop yourself, otherwise a rush of anxiety will probably overcome you(if it hasn't already). Walk up say hi. Talk about anything. ****ing aliens work. After a few minutes get her number. Say we should get lunch on xxx if you want to. Understand that there is a high chance of failing. As long as you do it you succeeded. Then go do it to 10 more girls and tell me why she was so special.
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hey man thanks for the good advice. i agree with this. Unfortunately, this girl who has been there the previous Thursdays and Fridays was not there this week! Oh well, I am hanging out with a friend and we are going to the mall next week to pick up some girls. I'll get some practice approaching then.
 
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girls just have to be hot, look good, be born cute, thats all, nothing else, a girl can be a boring person, have no life, have no goals or no ambition, be bratty, whine, complain, mope around all the time, have no confidence, not value themselves, but if they are at least very hot, us guys will still accept them. However, the same thing does not apply for us guys.
 
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