TheVampSlayer
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This is gonna be a long one, but this time I really need help figuring a girl out.
Okay, I went to a camp for like 4 weeks last month. I came back recently. There were several girls in the camp and it was a really big camp. However, most people there were guys. There was this one girl who I've known for years who also happened to be there. My group of friends socialized with her a lot. She used to like (I think) one of my friends. She, however, has no interest in him now. She spent most of the time surrounded by a lot of guys (I'm talking 10-15 a lot of the time, but rarely less than 5). I don't like that sort of setting, because it was mostly a lot of betas trying to get her attention.
She disliked me for a while, because I was having none of her ****, and was the only one that didn't treat her like a princess, although I must admit that I sometimes threw mild insults at her. Eventually, we stopped disliking each other. I seemed disinterested when we spoke, but still had conversations with her, and the days kept going on, and I could feel attraction slowly building. But, here's the tricky part, her regular conversations always seem like flirting.
One day a group of friends of mine and her went to have dinner. She sat opposed to me. I could notice her staring at me from time to time, with eyes of desire. I don't know what else to call them, but if she wasn't attracted then, my whole life has been a lie.
When we had to head home we had to take the same planes. She showed me her phone conversations with her girl-friends(a whatsapp group with 6 friends of hers). I looked at the images. We're underage, but those images had nudity, people drinking and doing drugs, and a lot of stuff like that. It also had a lot of pictures of her friends(the ones with which she had had those conversations). I learned their names and whenever pictures of them showed up I'd tell her who it was. Many pictures were of the girls asking for advice on outfits(including everything from underwear to gala dresses). She seemed particularly impressed when I guessed who it was in pictures that only showed the body and in some only the feet and shoes. During a 16-hour-long flight she stood up for an hour next to my seat while I saw some of those pictures.
In one of the airports we were going to get something to eat(me and her and the other people traveling with us) and I just stared at her and smiled. She had the biggest face on her smile and I just waved(should have winked, should have winked) and then we carried on(but I believe this was a pure sign of attraction). We made a bet on something and if she loses she has to buy me popcorn(in one of those places where they only serve popcorn). She will lose, but I have to wait till tomorrow for it to be official. When we got home and had to say goodbye, she proposed to stay with me until my parents picked me up, but I said no since her father and baby sister had just arrived to pick her up (and I didn't want them to dislike me). We always kiss on the cheek when we say goodbye but she pulled in for the hug (this hadn't happened between us before). As she left, I told her I was claim my reward(popcorn)
Now, my question is, do you believe there is real attraction, or am I misinterpreting it due to her flirty nature? Also, how do I set a date to get that popcorn, and should I pay for it?
Thanks in advance
Okay, I went to a camp for like 4 weeks last month. I came back recently. There were several girls in the camp and it was a really big camp. However, most people there were guys. There was this one girl who I've known for years who also happened to be there. My group of friends socialized with her a lot. She used to like (I think) one of my friends. She, however, has no interest in him now. She spent most of the time surrounded by a lot of guys (I'm talking 10-15 a lot of the time, but rarely less than 5). I don't like that sort of setting, because it was mostly a lot of betas trying to get her attention.
She disliked me for a while, because I was having none of her ****, and was the only one that didn't treat her like a princess, although I must admit that I sometimes threw mild insults at her. Eventually, we stopped disliking each other. I seemed disinterested when we spoke, but still had conversations with her, and the days kept going on, and I could feel attraction slowly building. But, here's the tricky part, her regular conversations always seem like flirting.
One day a group of friends of mine and her went to have dinner. She sat opposed to me. I could notice her staring at me from time to time, with eyes of desire. I don't know what else to call them, but if she wasn't attracted then, my whole life has been a lie.
When we had to head home we had to take the same planes. She showed me her phone conversations with her girl-friends(a whatsapp group with 6 friends of hers). I looked at the images. We're underage, but those images had nudity, people drinking and doing drugs, and a lot of stuff like that. It also had a lot of pictures of her friends(the ones with which she had had those conversations). I learned their names and whenever pictures of them showed up I'd tell her who it was. Many pictures were of the girls asking for advice on outfits(including everything from underwear to gala dresses). She seemed particularly impressed when I guessed who it was in pictures that only showed the body and in some only the feet and shoes. During a 16-hour-long flight she stood up for an hour next to my seat while I saw some of those pictures.
In one of the airports we were going to get something to eat(me and her and the other people traveling with us) and I just stared at her and smiled. She had the biggest face on her smile and I just waved(should have winked, should have winked) and then we carried on(but I believe this was a pure sign of attraction). We made a bet on something and if she loses she has to buy me popcorn(in one of those places where they only serve popcorn). She will lose, but I have to wait till tomorrow for it to be official. When we got home and had to say goodbye, she proposed to stay with me until my parents picked me up, but I said no since her father and baby sister had just arrived to pick her up (and I didn't want them to dislike me). We always kiss on the cheek when we say goodbye but she pulled in for the hug (this hadn't happened between us before). As she left, I told her I was claim my reward(popcorn)
Now, my question is, do you believe there is real attraction, or am I misinterpreting it due to her flirty nature? Also, how do I set a date to get that popcorn, and should I pay for it?
Thanks in advance
