"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i'm proud of myself

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today, there was a HB10 sitting at a table. and i'm not even kidding, i'm pretty sure she's like the hottest girl in my grade. ( i'll put a pic up if u guys want) this is why it was so hard for me. if it was any other girl it wouldn't have been very hard. i never really talked to her b4, i just knew that she was really hawt.


so here's how it went-
me:(sat down next to her at a table) hey how's it going?
her:hey, pretty good
me:are you *insert name*? didn't you go to my elementary school?
her:YEAH! *insert school name*
me:soo wut kinda porn are u watching on ur computer? (the school gives each one of us laptops)
her: haha, oh just checkin my grades...
me:how are they lookin? couple F's here and there?
her:haha sure....
me: then a teacher walks by and i ask him something about class and say: Isn't mr.*insert name* hot?
her: hahaha noooo...
me:come on, i think he's pretty hot
her: hahaha, what class do you have him for?
me: history...
her: so how are ur grades looking? couple F's too? haha
me: oh are u kidding? do u not see that i'm asian? teachers just see my name and put down an automatic 100%
her:hahaha ( she laughs really hard)
me: (while studying for german) so wut foreign language do you take?
her:french 1
me: french 1?! ( peeps in out grade are in french 2) how?
her: haha i failed it last year...
me:haha how'd u manage to do that? french 1 takes some serious skills to fail
her: haha are u calling me stupid?
me:eek:hhh no... :) i just didn't think failing french 1 was possible... :)
her: ohh whatever... :)
(pause)
her: hey weren't you the person that wrote in our 6th grade year books, that you were gonna blow stuff up with nuclear bombs haha? ( yeah i was a wierd kid)
me: waaaa? :) haha u remember that? i bet you were scared huh?
her: haha yeah i was
me: haha have you been hiding under the covers every night since then?
her: oh of course! i never know when you're gonna fire them! haha
and then we talked about something else i can't remember till the bell rang...

anyway, i felt really proud of myself for the rest of the day. it wasn't really that the coversation part, it was mainly that i got the balls the approach the hottest chick in my grade ( in my opinion) :)

i think i'll be doing this more often
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think every 6th grade boy at one time had an obsession with nuclear physics. I know I did.
 
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Spittin' some nice gamne there bro'. Keep it up.
 
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sweet ;) remember to get her number next time :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No number? arghh...oh well, you did a good job, nice to see you actually getting out there.
 
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do people actually number close in high school?
i've never seen anyone do it, and i'd feel really weird about it. its not that i'm scared to do it, but i dunno.... there just seems to be no point in doing so...
 
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Pretty damned good. I liked your use of an intro, the "didn't you go to my middle school..." part. Seems to me like it's a pretty solid opener. That's just my two cents. Go by yourself a gumball with it.

-Sachiel, DJ in Training
 
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Hey, good job bud!:rockon:

Yes, people number close in high school, how else would you get someone's number? It's not weird if you don't make it weird.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd probably take those pics down, you never know what could happen...


Anyway which one? To me their both HB7's
 
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/\hahaha....forreal, shes not that good looking....but wutever floats ur boat patna lol

props for takin some action tho. dont stop, jus keep goin...
 
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WTF! thts my gf! No its not. Keep up the good work :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude good work man.

yeah tone down the violence in the future. no more nukes for you ok
 
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The Shocker said:
No number? arghh...oh well, you did a good job, nice to see you actually getting out there.
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Don't listen to him. A lot of guys rush it. They look for material results.

You have no where near enough rapport to get a number and be able to avoid a flake.

You might have been able to get a number, but not a date.

Spend a few chats with her, make sure you are gaming her. Judging by that interaction, you need to DHV a little, a story perhaps, then straight to qualifying her. Once you get past that, comfort, as soon as you hit comfort, I'd say you're good for a number.

Don't rush it, you don't want to screw this up. You said she's the hottest girl in your grade. Well, if you got with her, imagine the social proof. All the girls at school will be attracted to you due to pre-selection.

But at the same time, don't think about it too much, and don't take this girl too seriously, you don't want to risk a one-itis.

Good luck,

-Lust.
 
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