"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IM PROBABLY GOING TO JAIL PART 2

Dgwizdal

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Here is the link to the original thread since it was locked... Was charged with Aggravated Domestic Battery. Girl had to get face surgery. Probably the most f*cked up thing that I have ever been involved with.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/im-probably-going-to-jail.226117/

Very useful information in there if you ever get into some BS...



WELP - A YEAR LATER AND THE SH!TS ALL OVER WITH.


Took the case all the way to trial after multiple continuances and BS. The first witness was of course her. She stupidly spilled the beans on everything. The photos we took of the damage to my house and the text messages after the incident played a key role in getting her to cough up the details on who was the aggressor. It also helped that she admitted she was drunk and trying to strike me first after the argument. Prosecutor was a complete moron.

That being said and my lawyer asking her a few more questions; It Took 15 minutes for the judge to dismiss me. My room mate nor I didn't even have to Testify. The Judge played on his computer the whole time while listening to her testify, Looked at the prosecutor and basically said "What did you expect him to do?" I think he could tell that this chick was nuts right off the bat. The way she was telling the story on the witness stand was a great testimony to her instability and unaccountability. I knew she wanted to get it over with as well tho... She still finds ways to contact me after I have had her blocked on everything for months.

A year this sh!t has been on my mind and hanging over my head and it is a huge relief. It really was a clear cut case to begin with but as im sure you are aware, the justice system typically does not favor men. Let me know if you have any questions.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Continue to document everything. As an attorney myself, is your attorney going to sue her for attorney's fees? May even want to file sanctions or ARDC complaint against the prosecutor to start fighting back against this kind of bullsh!t.
 

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Bravo......glad the Justice system was actually unbiased on this.

I've never hit a woman but there have been so many times they have deserved to get knocked the hell out.
 

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What a bottom of the barrel scumbag... she actually had the audacity to press charges and bring you to court, knowing full well she 100% assaulted you and provoked your actions out of self defense. Not only that, she drug you all the way to court without even having a f*cking case... literally wasted everyone's time. Unbelievable.

She should be thankful you didn't take her to court for assault. I think it'd be a pretty easy case to convict her just using the testimony from her own joke of a case.
 

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What a bottom of the barrel scumbag... she actually had the audacity to press charges and bring you to court, knowing full well she 100% assaulted you and provoked your actions out of self defense. Not only that, she drug you all the way to court without even having a f*cking case... literally wasted everyone's time. Unbelievable.
I think it's also time to start taking the prosecutors to task for pushing these cases forward and wasting the court's time. It may just be to leverage a guilty plea from the accused, but if there's a blatant instance like OP's in which the OP is clearly not guilty, the prosecutor should have to answer for his actions - before the state bar ethics committee.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It was not her pressing charges against me. It was the State or the retard prosecutor. Not even sure how she passed law school.

We presented some of the evidence we had against her to begin with and she still thought she could win. Then proceeded to mumble and fumble the entire time in court. Judge said it was clearly mutual combat. What a waste. Pretty sure she was a feminist - she was ugly as sh!t and treated my lawyer and I like scum.
 

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It was not her pressing charges against me. It was the State or the retard prosecutor. Not even sure how she passed law school.

We presented some of the evidence we had against her to begin with and she still thought she could win. Then proceeded to mumble and fumble the entire time in court. Judge said it was clearly mutual combat. What a waste. Pretty sure she was a feminist - she was ugly as sh!t and treated my lawyer and I like scum.
Well she certainly got the job not because she's qualified but gender mandates.
 

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It was not her pressing charges against me. It was the State or the retard prosecutor. Not even sure how she passed law school.
I think the prosecutor was only able to pursue the case because your psycho ex at some point submitted a police report. Which means your ex at some pointed wanted to use this against you.

The prosecutor sounds like a real winner though...
 

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Well she certainly got the job not because she's qualified but gender mandates.
I say like most of my college time,she had the vag to get the job not the qualification.

I kinda remember that story, now I will ask what you will do? serious its better you don't let it finish like that, since its the state and the prosecutor its time to make he work for his job a little.

serious I know where I life some laws are diferent but just to bring some light on it, neighboor sue us for fixing our house saying it damage his house(lied) then we get all proves, also file a complain since he invaded our home, so after we win the whole thing, we are suing him and his lawier for lyeing, still waiting to see what will happen on this, but pretty surethe dude and his lawier will think better next time they try to make a "easy buck"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I say like most of my college time,she had the vag to get the job not the qualification.

I kinda remember that story, now I will ask what you will do? serious its better you don't let it finish like that, since its the state and the prosecutor its time to make he work for his job a little.

serious I know where I life some laws are diferent but just to bring some light on it, neighboor sue us for fixing our house saying it damage his house(lied) then we get all proves, also file a complain since he invaded our home, so after we win the whole thing, we are suing him and his lawier for lyeing, still waiting to see what will happen on this, but pretty surethe dude and his lawier will think better next time they try to make a "easy buck"
Are you drunk?
 

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Damn, I almost got into a 'fight' with this b!tch at my school today lol. Funny how this thing just came up too
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It was the State or the retard prosecutor. Not even sure how she passed law school.

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Would have been the prosecutor on the States behalf. You summarized the entire bs case and why it was pushed forward with one word here: SHE.

I have been on both sides of the legal system. It's a crapshoot anymore, pure and simple. Congratulations on getting through it.
 
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