"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm posting this in desperation....

Smartone84

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I mean, I barely have even put myself out they're enough I feel. I mean, I even get the slightest bit of attention, and I like her already. Yeah, that sort is happening now. I will get into it later. Lack of game or a plan has been a problem it seems. It may stem from something else. I also feel I have an identity crisis as in I don't know I really am. The awesome guy thing, that's what I feel I lack. I mean, I go to school, I am surrounded by people, and I feel so isolated. I mean, I really don't know what it is. I wake up every day, and I am miserable. Anything can set me off, sometimes I even take it out on people. Or have to be careful not too. It is this constant thing. I mean, it's like I am in conflict with myself, and take it out on the world.
ok sorry to say bro, but this just went from a forum problem to a shrink problem. Make an appointment, you obviously have some serious inner issues. No offense of course



all I can say is that I used to be like you in the sense that I would like a girl the second she showed me some attention, I mean its hard not to, especially if she is somewhat attractive. But in time you will learn what it means to be a true Don Juan and live above all women and only put your "shield" down when the time is right
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SharinganUser

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You need to get some help. You should also think about taking a long vacation, like go backpacking or something.
 
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