Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's funny you say that about choosing your own government. If I decided to start an uprising they would call me a terrorists and nutjob. I was never lulled into a false sense of security. I always said we need to invest in foreign oil :woo: Big moneycomic_relief said:a lot of the price of oil has to do with supply disruptions in the oil producing countries.
Right now, the Middle East is breaking out with a revolutionary furor not seen in over thirty years. Libya, Tunisia, Egypt, Yemen, Bahrain, Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan, just to name a few Middle Eastern countries that are having problems. Saudi Arabia is attempting to stop any revolutionary furor with its Shiah Minority in the southeast.
I'm not sorry that you when I see young men and women fighting to throw off the yolk of oppression and authoritarian leaders. I stand firmly on the side of democracy and freedom to choose your own government. Once these countries stabilize in a few years, than the price will go down again.
I just wish that the price of oil never went down in 2008 because it lulled Americans into a false sense of security over low gas prices. The price drop was just because of the recession. Be prepared for oil to go up even further.
- comic_relief
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.