I'm Pissed Off....

[st_99]

Somewhat of a venting post but comments are welcomed and appreciated

So this is what happened....

I friend of mines girlfriend works with this single girl who she told to come out one night to meet me. She had an idea what I looked like from a cell phone photo that was shown to her.

Ok, so friday comes and this girl shows up at the bar, body was a 10, face about a 7.3, I'm thinking..nice! but didnt show it. Its me my buddy his girl and the girl I'm trying to hook up with. Nights going great she is clearly showing interest with touches, talking a lot, enthusiasm etc.. So after a few hours we go back to her place to just chill for a bit. My boy and his girl left and I stayed.. I invited this babe back to my place (I wasnt confertable hanging at her and her roomates place) and she agreed. So we end up going back to my place I put the moves on and we end up having sex. Next morning I dropped her off at home. So I let the weekend go by and monday comes, I figure I should give her a call at this point. Lucky me, she ended up calling first just as I was about to dial the phone! (she got my # of her friend).

So we chatted for a bit and she tells me she doesnt do things like that and asked me if I did. I just told her in a casual voice "I'm not into one night stands". She also asked me "so how do you feel about friday night." Wanting to play it cool I just said, "well, it was fun" or something like that (didnt want to sound too serious or anything creepy)... after a few minutes I told her we should get together and she agreed. I told her we should meet up on Thurdsay and she agreed. I told her I better get going and made sure I got off the phone at that point.

Thursday comes and I take her out to dinner (casual place). She did most of the talking..a lot of complaining about her job and even mentioned her ex and mentioned a couple dates she had gone on and how they went. I wasnt really that turned off by it cuz I dont think I've met a girl yet that hasnt mentioned her previous situation so I just figured it was normal (turns out she was with the same guy for 10 years 15-25 and he ended up cheating on her blah blah blah and she even went to counseling for it! (shes been single for 2 years now so I figure I'm not some kind of rebound.. Also there seemed to be good body language as she was leaning forward when talking so I took that as a good sign. Ok, so we finish up and as I'm driving home I ask her if she wants to come over to my place to hang out (mistake?), she agreed. We just kind of layed on the couch and watched some tv, kind of boring but I didnt want to make a move because we already had sex and I guess I didnt want to overdue it (it just wasnt the right night for that anyway). So around 11 she says its her bedtime and I drive her home and made sure I ended it with a good make out session. I leaned in, got the kiss in and she proceeded to make it an even better kiss by staying with it longer than I had planned and droping more tounge, so I felt this is good stuff..

Well, that was thursday..I figured I would play it cool and hang with my boys on the weekened and give her a call on Monday. I called monday...No answer!(didnt leave a message) Called Thursday...NO ANSWER! (Left message).

So now its Saturday and I'm not going to call anymore and am 99.999% sure at this piont she wont call either.

So what the fVck happend? Are you friggin kidding me, I though I was getting all the right signals and them poof, shes gone..this **** pisses me off.

Any comments welcomed..

 

[Wiesman44]

maybe she just decided you weren't her type. After the date, she realized that you weren't the person she was looking for. probably you're a good looking guy so she liked hooking up with you. It happens man. She's been single for 2 yrs for a reason. If she has a 10 for a body, and 7 for a face, there's got to be a reason why she's single. And the fact that she blew you off shows she probably either has problems, or just is really picky.

 

[st_99]

Yeah, maybe your right.. I dont know, what makes it even more funny is that this girl has no life. She just moved around my area a few months ago and doesnt know anybody, doesnt go out, and is starting to hate her roomate...she has no life and still blew me off..lol.

Funny thing is when we were at the bar the first night I met her I remember her saying.. "I don't call boys back" I took it as her being mostly ****y funny but a little on the serious side also because of her previous mess.

 

[Docs]

You scored a ONS!

Well..technically, it's a TNS

Move on and if she calls, great.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Okay, hahahah

Do not forget this, take this to the grave....

WOMEN NEED RELATIONSHIPS, MEN NEED SEX.

Why do you care if she calls you back? You want a relationship? No, you want sex, right? So stay a don juan, hell, that's why she fvcked in the first place. Dinner dates? Dude, its too early for dinner dates, thats shyt couples do. Call her and say we are going back out, or we are drinking or hanging at so and so's crib, stop by. Fvck her and drop her off. Guys, why do you want to be in a relationship, without knowing if the girl really loves you? Why, because she fvcked you? ahah, don juans get sex all the time. A girl has to prove to us she loves us by her actions and how she treats us. Hell, it takes a while before we can make a decision if she is real or not, not in one night.

Why did she stop calling? Well, some women are not jerks. Some, knowing you want a relationship, will gone ahead and jump in it, then cheat on you down the road. She just wanted to fvck, damn, slow down kid.

Dinner dates? No, no, no. Hang out spots, parties, clubs, these are places you go at the beginning. Nothing serious! After months or a year or two, then we get all serious and romantic, why..........because NOW WE HAVE SOMETHING TO GET SERIOUS ABOUT. We have a history, you can't be romantic unless you can be intimate, you can't be intimate unless you know each other. Make sense? Don't forget this now.

 

[Docs]

Dinner dates? No, no, no. Hang out spots, parties, clubs, these are places you go at the beginning. Nothing serious! After months or a year or two, then we get all serious and romantic, why..........because NOW WE HAVE SOMETHING TO GET SERIOUS ABOUT. We have a history, you can't be romantic unless you can be intimate, you can't be intimate unless you know each other. Make sense? Don't forget this now.

Said like a PRO

 

[DonJuanForever]

One more thing, try to understand this and think about this. Women need relationships, we don't need them. the only thing she can offer us that we can't offer ourselves, is pvssy. That's why we need sex. We can do everything else. But what do we have, excitement, protection, etc., etc., this is what women get in a relationship. So......she knowing we want sex, she will fvck us if we show these traits that she needs, because she knows that way we'll think about being in a relationship with her. The thing is, DEMAND MORE FROM HER. Don't just be satisifed with sex, demand she caters to you, praises you, etc. She knowing the value she will get in a relationship with you, she will do these things. It's like a business deal.

She gives you want you want,
you give her what she wants.

No telemarketers here, no scam artists here, it's a win-win situation. Its a business deal we both see value in. Why do business with somebody( be in a relationship) when they don't give you what you want? This makes no sense.

 

[st_99]

Okay, hahahah

Do not forget this, take this to the grave....

WOMEN NEED RELATIONSHIPS, MEN NEED SEX.

Why do you care if she calls you back? You want a relationship? No, you want sex, right? So stay a don juan, hell, that's why she fvcked in the first place. Dinner dates? Dude, its too early for dinner dates, thats shyt couples do. Call her and say we are going back out, or we are drinking or hanging at so and so's crib, stop by. Fvck her and drop her off. Guys, why do you want to be in a relationship, without knowing if the girl really loves you? Why, because she fvcked you? ahah, don juans get sex all the time. A girl has to prove to us she loves us by her actions and how she treats us. Hell, it takes a while before we can make a decision if she is real or not, not in one night.

Why did she stop calling? Well, some women are not jerks. Some, knowing you want a relationship, will gone ahead and jump in it, then cheat on you down the road. She just wanted to fvck, damn, slow down kid.

Dinner dates? No, no, no. Hang out spots, parties, clubs, these are places you go at the beginning. Nothing serious! After months or a year or two, then we get all serious and romantic, why..........because NOW WE HAVE SOMETHING TO GET SERIOUS ABOUT. We have a history, you can't be romantic unless you can be intimate, you can't be intimate unless you know each other. Make sense? Don't forget this now.

Damn, your right..I shouldnt have took her on a friggin dinner date. (Although it was nothing fancy). I should have just kept it fun and said lets all meet up at the bar again next week or whatever.

 

[DonJuanForever]

st 99 , try to understand this stuff though...

Its a business relationship.

What do women want? A guy that protects, fun, mature, has money, etc., and she can only get that in a relationship right?

What do men want? Pvssy. But to get that, he has to be the guy she wants right? And then a woman who's supportive, praiseful, etc.

If you twist this up, and AFC stuff. The guy would offer TOO MUCH of his value to her in the beginning. This makes the girl think that he is faking and is not really the man of value.

The other twist, a girl you have not even "don juaned" and you are not a celebrity yet or a big popular guy, if she just runs up to you and says "let's fvck," wouldn't you think this girl had something seriously wrong with her or that she could be a man or some shyt?

This is business. Customer service. You have your part to do, she has hers. Be willing to do yours, but don't do business with someone who has bad customer service.

 

[st_99]

If you twist this up, and AFC stuff. The guy would offer TOO MUCH of his value to her in the beginning. This makes the girl think that he is faking and is not really the man of value.

But I dont think I offered Too much value, I basically f'd her and blew her off as far as she knows...she called me first.