I'm pissed off for posting this but I need to hear it from SS

[Dan08]

FWB got in touch tonight, we met up. Hadn't seen each other for a couple months since we split and she just wants friends.
Was out with my boss and his insight was she's just a kid and I'm on the backburner so to speak.

I can understand where he's coming from but she's a good kid and we have obviously some past history between us.
When I saw her tonight it was hugs and kisses etc. which just makes things all the more awkward and confusing....

Part of me says bail and cut it dead as there's no relationship/sex coming out of this anymore, but the other part of me says forget the relationship/sex and have her as a mate. She's a good laugh and for the next 2 months she's literally 2 minutes down the road for me.

My boss see's her as Fubar and I'm the father she hasn't had. etc.

Thoughts?

 

[Greasy Pig]

You're only 20. What is she, fvcking 12?
Don't chase uninterested women.

 

[Zarky]

If you were really interested in just being "friends" with her and had no ulterior motives or hopes, you wouldn't bother posting about it here.

Because of this, it's clear you still want to get down her pants. It ain't gonna happen. 95% of the time when FWBs end the sexual part of the relationship, it NEVER comes back.

Don't waste your time.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Tell her that she turns you on. And that it's impossible to be "just friends" and sit across the room from her and have a pleasant conversation about how her classes are at school when all you're really thinking about is slamming her against the wall, tearing her clothes off, and pounding her from behind so hard that her eyes roll into the back of her head and every man, woman and child within a 5 mile radius will be able to hear her unbridled screams of ecstasy.

 

[jurry]

Tell her that she turns you on. And that it's impossible to be "just friends" and sit across the room from her and have a pleasant conversation about how her classes are at school when all you're really thinking about is slamming her against the wall, tearing her clothes off, and pounding her from behind so hard that her eyes roll into the back of her head and every man, woman and child within a 5 mile radius will be able to hear her unbridled screams of ecstasy.

Hah. I like that approach.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Hah. I like that approach.

Thanks. Incidentally enough...this approach is how you should deal with ANY girl trying to friendzone you.

 

[YAboi]

me personally my life is sooooo strange that when I ask girls to be friends with me even when they have turned me down for relationships, they do not agree cos they just can't seem to see me as just that . Has happened twice recently haha

 

[MountainSlide]

me personally my life is sooooo strange that when I ask girls to be friends with me even when they have turned me down for relationships, they do not agree cos they just can't seem to see me as just that . Has happened twice recently haha

Can a man really be friends with a women? I find that intimacy follows no matter what my intentions are.

 

[Mr Wright]

Thanks. Incidentally enough...this approach is how you should deal with ANY girl trying to friendzone you.

Someone's been reading 60 year of challenge


It's so true though, it's blasting through the BS and getting to the truth, if you want to bang her and she doesn't, don't be friends with her. It's not worth the erections.

 

[sylvester the cat]

You weren't good enough for a relationship and then you weren't good enough for fwb. Soon enough you won't be good enough for friends.

 

[Dan08]

Thanks guys, duly noted.

 

[nismo-4]

Men and women can't be just friends. Somebody wants to bang, usually the guy. If guy=yes and girl=no, leave unless you want to be a friend (beta orbiter).

I like gravityeyelids approach, though I think this is otherwise a lost cause. It is apparent the OP still cares, hence this post.

OP, read Mr. Wright's threads in his sig. His top thread made it into my yearly review for a reason.

Case closed.

 

[Dan08]

Stayed strong and ended it.

 

[logicallefty]

I have one what I would call good female friend. She is a HB 9 but I have zero attraction or sexual interest in her, and I think she feels the same about me. We have slept in a tent together before, I've watched her p!ss, seen her flash her t!ts when she was drunk, and I can honestly say no sexual feeling have ever came about. Maybe its because I respect her too much for anything further, and I really do respect her a lot. She is extremely smart, logical, rational, and all of those things that 40yo old women rarely are. She has had to really earn her position as my female friend, though, and she has.