I feel like i am my own worse enemy, i've only ever had one girlfriend in highschool, and that relationship ended pretty fast. I have gone through my downs, and i feel pretty good about myself right now, i feel like a catch, i am a tall 6'4 240 pound black guy, i get looks wherever i go. Now all this may seem great, but i seem to just sit there with all this female attention on me, i don't know how to pull the trigger. How do i stop being a ***** and start talking to banging chicks.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Im Pissed at myself
- Thread starter Wildmanny
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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