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Been there, got over it. Heres how:
1. Turn off your television, or go a step further and cancel your cable service. Nothing on TV is worth you time, most of the programming only reinforces AFC behavior. If your already in the dumps then watching improbable relationships on tv won't help your mood.
2. Get a hobby. There a thousands of things to do to spend your time. When you truly find an activity your interested in you'll notice that your mind will become more focused on it, rather than your situation. I recommend learning an instrument, another language, anything to not only spend your time, but improve yourself.
3. Exercise. Nothing will increase your mood more than exercising, it releases endorphins into your bloodstream naturally improving your mood. It also improves your body, with that extra confidence from a lean and fit physique you'll lose that "desperate" aura.
4. Look for forms of supplemental income. Perhaps it can be combined with your new hobby. Something that generates extra cash will automatically take your mind off of women. After awhile you'll be more concerned with that extra $500 towards your european vacation instead of some skank thats been ignoring you at the bus stop.
5. Find a competitive sport to play. Golfing with co-workers, pick-up basketball games, paintball. All of these activities and more will fulfill your manly need for conquest and competition. This inherent need for men to compete and win will diminish any thoughts about women. I know its hard to think about women when I'm dashing down the sideline of our local flag football league.
Your about my age too, at 34 I started noticing my diminished sex drive, let that work for you. As another poster wisely pointed out, were at the age now where we are not in a hurry for anything, its women our age that have the hot seat now. The biggest fear for a young man is to be a virgin into his late 20s. The biggest fear for an older woman is to be alone for the last part of her life. As men age we become more refined, independent and resourceful. Imagine all the things you can do without a nagging wife and kids around.
The only personal responsible for your happiness is you. Look to no others for this. You can either crawl into a hole and wait to die, or take action. You have already come to this site and are willing to learn, so your one step in the right direction. Goodluck brother.