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Don Juan
You know, let me be the first person to say that you are doing the right thing. You may be overreacting, but the point is that you are honest and stand up for yourself. That's what's important.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What and you are?? Oxymoron RIGHT there, good friends? Hey maybe Mrs. Eldud can come and give you three ride to sleepovers or something.good friends with the 2 b1tches this loser ass nigga is trying to get with(Losers never gonna get with them)
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You probably leech off of him for free rides all the time without putting anything towards gas, so he had every right to break your balls. You are just too much of a pu$$y to handle it. :cheer:ElStud said:It's a WescottII post, come on you know it's gonna be stupid.
Point is, these guys are gonna have to find some other dude to f*cking bully around and make a f*cking joke on, cause I'm not taking em. In the end, these guys are nothing but a bunch of losers. Besides, now that I'm done with these losers, I can start hanging out with my OTHER friends who I never really hung out with before, because I was hanging with these losers. Seriously though, from now on, I am making it god damn clear to people, you give me a f*cking ride, you f*cking take me back or you lose your f*cking life. So if you riding me somewhere, you better damn well bring me back.
Especially the Ikena guy, he's a loser and a lot of people hate him and now I'm starting to see why. First of all, the dudes a well known p*ssy and I didn't start to see that until tonight. He's f*cking scared to go f*cking grind with girls and all he does half the time is talk about the girls he wants to grind with, what a p*ssy. Hell, the ONLY REASON this dude even stopped the whole joke, was because he saw I was getting serious about that sh*t when I started pushing his ass and f*cking grabbing him by the shirt. And f*ck the other two dudes John and David too. The ONLY reason Ikena even takes the John guy around is because he KNOWS John will whoop his ass if he doesn't. And the David guy is a freaking loser too. Basically this Ikena guy is someone who used to get his ass f*cking beat by Freshman, yes Freshman. He sucks at track too. Now, I know why people hate him so much and now, I got no reason to hang out with him or any of these other guys. And can you believe this nigga has the nerve to ask ME to apologize? Nigga you were the one who started the stupid joke in the first place and if ANYONE deserves an apology it's me.
Nigga has no game either. You should hear him on the phone he sounds like a stalker calling up girls and saying "What's cracka-lackin?" haha, what the hell, the John dude even said himself that this guy sounds like a stalker. And thank god I'm not friends with this guy anymore, because I would probably be a virgin till I'm 24. This nigga talks about how he's not a virgin and sh*t but I don't believe him one bit. And this guy IS a well known liar too. I remember this one kid telling me that he can't even believe Ikena anymore because he lies so much.
True and you know what I've learned my lesson, don't depend on other people for sh*t. I'm gonna get my own car so I DON'T have to worry about messing with these guys anymore. Haha, this nigga ACTUALLY replied to my facebook message and the beggining was like "Look, nigga I told you countless times I was joking" but I deleted the message and didn't bother to read the rest. That's all that John nigga is doing too, leeching rides off him and John's going to learn his lesson eventually as well.TheBaconator said:You probably leech off of him for free rides all the time without putting anything towards gas, so he had every right to break your balls. You are just too much of a pu$$y to handle it. :cheer:
Would you stop saying "nigga"? You make yourself look stupid. It's not cool when it's said OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND...ElStud said:True and you know what I've learned my lesson, don't depend on other people for sh*t. I'm gonna get my own car so I DON'T have to worry about messing with these guys anymore. Haha, this nigga ACTUALLY replied to my facebook message and the beggining was like "Look, nigga I told you countless times I was joking" but I deleted the message and didn't bother to read the rest. That's all that John nigga is doing too, leeching rides off him and John's going to learn his lesson eventually as well.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This is a Seduction Forum, not a Rap Video. If you could only see yourself.ElStud said:True and you know what I've learned my lesson, don't depend on other people for sh*t. I'm gonna get my own car so I DON'T have to worry about messing with these guys anymore. Haha, this nigga ACTUALLY replied to my facebook message and the beggining was like "Look, nigga I told you countless times I was joking" but I deleted the message and didn't bother to read the rest. That's all that John nigga is doing too, leeching rides off him and John's going to learn his lesson eventually as well.
And even if I did joke with the guy, if I saw that the dude was starting to take it seriously, I'd be like "I'm joking man" or something.
seems like he did what you said you'd do to difuse the situationHaha, this nigga ACTUALLY replied to my facebook message and the beggining was like "Look, nigga I told you countless times I was joking" but I deleted the message and didn't bother to read the rest
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This is 100% true, this is how guys have fun and enjoy each others company. My question is why didn't you joke back..."Ok I'll just have to sleep in your sisters bed tonight."Teh_Wolf said:ummm dude, basically this is how guys interact with each other. usually the most reactive of the group will be the target
I agree on this too...this is how male's bond...personally I think this is the best and longest bond ever. When you can joke around and enjoy each others company. A friend of yours who you hang with because he has access to VIP will slowly die out as opposed to guys you can have that type of bond, that you have with them.SinJester said:lol it's called male bonding. All guys do it. GaryUranga is right when he says a victim calls to be victimized. If you act like the victim or expect to be then you will become the victim. A victim mindset is never healthy.
I don't give one sh*t about the male bonding thing, because that's just not how I play. That's not how I do things and it will never be how I do things. If they feel the need to treat me as a "victim" of sorts they can do that, but they can forget about us ever being friends again. And after this, I really don't even want anything to do with these kids anymore. It's like I just don't see the point in hanging out with them anymore and I see no point of going back and hanging out with them. I have several other friends and if these guys want to play me and make a fool out of me, I don't need that. Haha, maybe I should start playing the joke on them, making damn fools of them, bully them around and then all say it was a joke and see how THEY react. Knowing most of those niggas they'd do the same sh*t and get pissed. I mean what true friend wants to make a fool of their friend like that. In the end, me and them = over.Snow Plowman said:Damn El Stud, I'm with the guys on this one, totally overreacting, but atleast you did what you wanted to do...So I guess there is some good out of it.
This is 100% true, this is how guys have fun and enjoy each others company. My question is why didn't you joke back..."Ok I'll just have to sleep in your sisters bed tonight."
Seriously though, as many years as you guys hung out you haven't had no serious jokes or pranks that you take to the extreme. This didn't sound like much,
I've had my boys take me out my house and drop me off in the mall in my PJs...When it comes to sarging I've had my wings come up to me saying I'm gay or saying some real retarded **** that I have to agree with.
I agree on this too...this is how male's bond...personally I think this is the best and longest bond ever. When you can joke around and enjoy each others company. A friend of yours who you hang with because he has access to VIP will slowly die out as opposed to guys you can have that type of bond, that you have with them.
Also you are really playing the victim role, like they are purposely fuking you over and picking on you. Friendship bonds is nothing but a bunch of AMOGing and messing with each other. Yesterday I met two new guys and one of the guys introduced the other saying "Yea this guy's name is mother ****er" or "As*hole"...and his boy is like "I don't give a fuk me name is xxx". Then were start joking on him about his rich girl that he hates and doesn't want to fuk no more. I then start dogging on him about it for about 10mins straight.
Also El Stud, notice how your now backwards rationalizing things to justify leaving this social alliance to go find a new one. Your looking at all the bad to make you believe it's a good choice to stop hanging with them. I'm 100% sure there are far more better experiences with you and your friends than bad experiences. You tend to look more on the negativity side than the actual positive side.
Neither do you.ElStud said:Nigga has no game either.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.