"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm offering to help anyone here

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After I consulted with some fellow DJs on this board I feel it is my duty to have a emergency line for advice. Here is my AIM sn,blinkwatt,contact me if you need instant advice. I understand how it is always nice to have an opinoin from clear eyes,as I have contacted several DJs before in the past for advice,im offering anyone my expertise.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You are 18 kid, how much expertise can you have?
 

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For anyone under 18,in high school. Im not saying I know it all,far from it,but hey its always nice to have someone elses opinoin.
 
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Fine, but I am straight NOW, in the women area.
I got some questions on investments. What are the good ones, bad ones?
What are the positives and negatives of each?
 

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What type of investments? Stocks? Real Estate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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give me some advice on tax-sheltered annuities please :)
 

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You should've known you were going to get flamed for making this thread whether your intentions were good or not.



PIMP
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pimp-sicle said:
You should've known you were going to get flamed for making this thread whether your intentions were good or not.



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Yeah I should have known better,oh well you learn and move on. But anywho a few member have contacted me. Hey as long as I help 1 person its worth it.
 

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1.Any tips on how to win your ex back?..I mean any pointers on what to do and what not to do?

2.How u should behave or act..and if she gets in contact... what should u do...how would u behave or act...
 

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blinkwatt do you use msn messenger? if you do send me a pm and ill give you my addy, i wouldnt mind a second opinion on a rather precarious issue.!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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