"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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im nto sure if anyone knows but

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im nto sure if anyone knows but this is my problem.

I seem to not have any social ability when im not drunk, when im drunk i can talk to whoever, but when im not i cant talk to me people very well and dont have good social skills.

I would like to know if this can be classified as any sort of serious psychological drinking problem.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was really high when I posted this, what I meant was my social skills are severly lacking when im not under the influence of alcohol. And I would like to know if this could be a form of alcohol dependency.
 
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hahahhha thats hilarious. You were HIGH? lol

I don't think this is a serious dependency, but if your trying to say that you are a lot more social when you drink, i'd have to say that's a majority of people.

Work on shyness, that seems to be your overall problem as you describe.

Go to this - http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/readers.htm - there are plenty of amazing articles about learning how to talk, and act there.

Have fun - and don't be high when reading it, its important stuff ;)
 
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