I'm not the one holding back....

[swifTy]

hay omen

I hear what your sayin. your just p!ssed at how rude she is being. your thinkin whats her fukken deal? we're friends and everything...why she bein such a *****? a simple hi was probablu all you were after. Been there, done that. She's a dog mate and your a good guy. She has no manners. She also thinks your gonna fight with her bf over her. She is deluded! unfortunately alot of women are like this. i totally get where you are coming from. dogs like this aren't worth scrap mate. find some nice girls to hang with.

 

[Omen]

I've been hearing about this chick for two weeks now and by the sound of your post you are pretty hung up on her and it obvious, give her a break, shes 16, try and think back when you were 16. she has no idea what's going on she only thinks she does, I say its time for you to be the adult here and just be nice, if somebody rejects you for being nice it doesn't mean you have to be offended, you only get offended when you give yourself permission to be offended, come on man, learn some surrender. use a third party to help this, seek out her friend at work and compliment this 16 year old to her. tell her you really enjoy working with her because she is so good with the customers, its going to go right back to her and people love hearing third party compliments, and stop dissing her boyfriend to other co workers, that's a third party insult. even the way you describe it online it sounds arrogant. and I wasn't there but why would you buy joe shmoe a drink?....why would you flash money?....neither idea was a good one in my opinion. next time you buy a drink for someone try buying everybody a round, or keep your money in your pocket. sounds a little tacky really. the reason why is you are not sincere, its not like you wanted to get to know this guy and be friends with him. just because he looked like a bum or that he is dating this girl doesn't mean he isn't a nice guy, basically when you pulled out you money clip you were really pulling out your penis and asking him to pull his out his penis so you can compare and see who has the biggest penis. of course him and her are pissed, your attitude was poor. a player attracts people, male and female, his personality is contagious, people want to be around him, he makes people feel good when he is around, this is what chicks think is sexy, not the penis comparing.

The reason I bought him his drink was because he was expecting to meet a pissed off guy at the party after talking shyt. So I did what he wasn't expecting. I was nice. Threw him off, game plan ruined. I went about my night.

Only 1 guy at work even knows the story, so no one else even knows about him and me. And he isnt the problem.

The only problem I have is that her and I said we had no problem still talking as long as its friend to friend talk. I was like duh, that's all it is, and that was last week. Then this week she pretends like I dont exist at work, and barely says a word. Oh well, it'll work itself out i'm sure. I just get upset just like swifTy said.

You try to say hi and it backfires.

But I started talking to this other girl, so it helped and should be all good from here on out. I try to get along with everyone I work with, cause that's me.

And the one reason I liked talking to that one girl was just that. SHE TALKED. She always seemed happy, unlike some people who look like they lost their dog and are always depressed. Being around those people are no fun. She made me laugh at work and made the night more fun. Then she turned into an ass.

Bright side... TONS more new hires plus the model i'm still working on taking to dinner, and no not for the $100 bet in one of my other posts. Which...ended up going down to $20. lol