I'm not the one holding back....

[Omen]

So after work I had sent a txt to this girl I work with and told her that she can be a butt head sometime. I almost said ass, or b*tch but I kept it pretty light.

I dont know what her deal is, but she just started being totally different after I went to a party she was at with her boyfriend. I really could have cared less.

Then last week i'm like... So what, know you dont want to talk to me anymore? She's like...as long as its just friend talk i'm ok with it. Her boyfriend must have got in her face or something cause she always talked about me.

Anyway I was like.... Why would you think its more than just friend talk? I said...Your 16. I'm not trying to steal you from your boyfriend if that's what you really think. I said the last girl I dated was a Dr. Not that you're worthless, but you get my drift. I dont have any business with you.

So she may have gotten a little upset. She may have tried to test me, to see my response, and was looking for another response, but she didnt get it.

But at work last night she just kind of walked by and ignored me for the most part unless I needed something and HAD to speak to her. Not once did she say hi.

So last night I said... Holding back? Holding back what? She was like... Good question.

Anyway I have no idea if she thinks i'm holding back frustration, anger, disappointment, feelings for her, or what.

Only reason i'm pissed is cause she went all talkative, funny, spunky, and everything in between to dull as a rock, and now she's really no fun to be around.

All I can think is that maybe her boyfriend is threatened by me still. But I still dont know what she thinks i'm holding back.

Only other thing I can think of was we used to joke about how when she turned 18 i'd take her out to dinner. Cause I use to say... You're 16, what are we going to do? Go out for chocolate milk? Make sure to bring your sippy cup. She'd go... Your an ASS. So then when I said I wanted nothing to do with her, she probably thinks... He is lying out his ass, and I know he likes me, and now he wont admit it.

I'd really like to just :kick:

It would be a lot easier if she just said what she was thinking i'm holding back. She just pisses me off sometimes. But what girl doesn't piss a guy off :yes:

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Oh, Christ almighty. You can't be 28 years old and talking about shyt like this, surely?

 

[Omen]

Its more of a rant thread

I just get pissed when girls act like that, and I have to be around them all week.

I'm not a violent person, but i'd like to smack her. lol

I hate when you work around people who are all cool and nice, and then they do a 360. It makes for a long 6hrs. You ask people how life is, hows your boyfriend, hows school, and just say hi, and then the next week they pull that shyt. My fuse just blows at stuff like that.

I told a guy at work. Wont hurt my feelings if she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And i'm about at that point to where I dont give a rats ass, and i'm not dealing with it anymore. I told her forget about it last week, and we dont have to talk period. I'll do my job you do yours. Then she was like.... nah, its fine as long as we talk as friends. Cause I dont need that shyt and I dont play games. Then she just did the opposite. I have to work with that stuff, so its hard to avoid totally.

 

[PhatE1vis]

I hate when you work around people who are all cool and nice, and then they do a 360.

If she does a 360, you should be OK then.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Um, he's 28. She's 16. There's something wrong here.

 

[Potbelly]

If she does a 360, you should be OK then.

You mean....180? 360 is a full turn bro...you end up the same way you started.

 

[Potbelly]

Um, he's 28. She's 16. There's something wrong here.

definitely yes

 

[PhatE1vis]

You mean....180? 360 is a full turn bro...you end up the same way you started.

Exactly my point. If she does a 360 as the OP stated, he should be fine.

 

[skirtChaser]

its only hard to avoid in your mind.

 

[Omen]

I work with people 16-40. Well... I think there are a few even older than 40.

Its retail, so you have your young kids, and then people who do it for fun and just extra money or the discount. lol.

Yes, 180. My fault.

Work can get long, and we try to keep it a fun night and enjoy what we do, but then when you have someone that does that crap it can make for a long night.

Fortunately there are many other people to talk too, and I try to do just that. But sometimes there is always the... Crap, she has the keys and I need them, so you have to talk to the person.

I just dont know why she's the way she is now. She use to smile and wave when I walked in the door, and now its not even so much as a hi.

Oh well, what can you do. I guess you dont have to please everyone.

This is the girl who went to a work party 2 weeks ago, and said... I hope you dont mind but my boyfriend will be there. I said... What do I care? I'm not your boyfriend.

Then he showed up and I introduced myself, whipped out the money clip and said... Here your drink is on me tonight. Then I went about my business. I think she's still pissed at that for some reason. She must have thought I was going to get into it with him. Cause he told me the day before... Looks like you lose again. I was like lose what? What I dont have your 16yr old girlfriend? Who gives a fvck.

Or she's mad I didnt talk to her at the party at all. I spoke to the 21-25 year old girls there and made conversation with people I never met.

Girls just cause problems. She then told people I left the party early all pissed off. I never left early nor was I pissed off. I seriously think in her mind she wanted me to be mad she brought her man. So she had to make up some dumb story and when I got to work someone said... Heard you left the party early all pissed. Who said that? Oh wait let me guess.

Anyway, she's just been retarded recently.

 

[DonJuanNJ81]

Unreal

I work with people 16-40. Well... I think there are a few even older than 40.

Its retail, so you have your young kids, and then people who do it for fun and just extra money or the discount. lol.

Yes, 180. My fault.

Work can get long, and we try to keep it a fun night and enjoy what we do, but then when you have someone that does that crap it can make for a long night.

Fortunately there are many other people to talk too, and I try to do just that. But sometimes there is always the... Crap, she has the keys and I need them, so you have to talk to the person.

I just dont know why she's the way she is now. She use to smile and wave when I walked in the door, and now its not even so much as a hi.

Oh well, what can you do. I guess you dont have to please everyone.

This is the girl who went to a work party 2 weeks ago, and said... I hope you dont mind but my boyfriend will be there. I said... What do I care? I'm not your boyfriend.

Then he showed up and I introduced myself, whipped out the money clip and said... Here your drink is on me tonight. Then I went about my business. I think she's still pissed at that for some reason. She must have thought I was going to get into it with him. Cause he told me the day before... Looks like you lose again. I was like lose what? What I dont have your 16yr old girlfriend? Who gives a fvck.

Or she's mad I didnt talk to her at the party at all. I spoke to the 21-25 year old girls there and made conversation with people I never met.

Girls just cause problems. She then told people I left the party early all pissed off. I never left early nor was I pissed off. I seriously think in her mind she wanted me to be mad she brought her man. So she had to make up some dumb story and when I got to work someone said... Heard you left the party early all pissed. Who said that? Oh wait let me guess.

Anyway, she's just been retarded recently.

Omen...I don't think your getting the real reason were surprised by your situation. Heres the alarming fact of your perdicament:

Your 28, shes 16

First of all...she has a boyfriend. Second of all...your 12 years her senior. Third of all...you can't find a woman to hit on thats closer to your age?

I think you might be afraid to approach a woman your own age.

Let go of the 16 year old before you get arrested...

 

[Prodigy746]

OMG WHY ARE YOU EVEN TALKING TO 16 YEAR OLD GIRLS. Wtf is wrong with you... I wish i could just :trouble:

 

[Omen]

I have to talk to those people cause they work with me. But i'm not after her, and I told her. I said look... I dont date 16yr olds. I never have and never will. I think when I told her the last girl I dated was a Dr and the other one worked for the record industry, and then said why would I want to date a high school girl, I think she got all upset.

Now maybe she's all upset about that, who knows.

And i'd get your facts down prodigy before you offer a beating. :kick: lol You have 11 posts, chill.

And no DonJuan, the last woman I took on a date was 23, the last one was 26, the last one I dated was 22 when I was 26, and then the previous LTR she was 23 and I was 25. So I dont have a problem finding them my age.

I think this girl I work with WANTS me to be after her in all honesty. And because of that I think she is just trying to be rude.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Yeah, it sucks when you work with someone who is usually fun to be with then; brings negative a$$ sh!t towards you. She is young and who knows what she is going through right now. Maybe her boyfriend got jealous of you and put her in check. Maybe she was offended by your C/F. Its that time of the month... just leave her be she will come around.

 

[Omen]

Yeah, it sucks when you work with someone who is usually fun to be with then; brings negative a$$ sh!t towards you. She is young and who knows what she is going through right now. Maybe her boyfriend got jealous of you and put her in check. Maybe she was offended by your C/F. Its that time of the month... just leave her be she will come around.

I'm going to blame it on that time of month and Halloween too. lol

I had another girl stare me in the eyes for like 5 seconds and we were face to face and I was like... What was that all about? She's like... I dont know. WTF?

I think the girls were possessed last night or something.

 

[jimmyjack]

Hum 16 when they are lots of matured girl out there well keep playing the game.

 

[Omen]

Hum 16 when they are lots of matured girl out there well keep playing the game.

That made no sense and sounded like a 5yr old posted it.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I'm going to blame it on that time of month and Halloween too. lol

I had another girl stare me in the eyes for like 5 seconds and we were face to face and I was like... What was that all about? She's like... I dont know. WTF?

I think the girls were possessed last night or something.

Maybe you have some kind of aura going on thats either good or bad....

 

[skirtChaser]

I've been hearing about this chick for two weeks now and by the sound of your post you are pretty hung up on her and it obvious, give her a break, shes 16, try and think back when you were 16. she has no idea what's going on she only thinks she does, I say its time for you to be the adult here and just be nice, if somebody rejects you for being nice it doesn't mean you have to be offended, you only get offended when you give yourself permission to be offended, come on man, learn some surrender. use a third party to help this, seek out her friend at work and compliment this 16 year old to her. tell her you really enjoy working with her because she is so good with the customers, its going to go right back to her and people love hearing third party compliments, and stop dissing her boyfriend to other co workers, that's a third party insult. even the way you describe it online it sounds arrogant. and I wasn't there but why would you buy joe shmoe a drink?....why would you flash money?....neither idea was a good one in my opinion. next time you buy a drink for someone try buying everybody a round, or keep your money in your pocket. sounds a little tacky really. the reason why is you are not sincere, its not like you wanted to get to know this guy and be friends with him. just because he looked like a bum or that he is dating this girl doesn't mean he isn't a nice guy, basically when you pulled out you money clip you were really pulling out your penis and asking him to pull his out his penis so you can compare and see who has the biggest penis. of course him and her are pissed, your attitude was poor. a player attracts people, male and female, his personality is contagious, people want to be around him, he makes people feel good when he is around, this is what chicks think is sexy, not the penis comparing.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

1. Ask her why shes mad at you.
2. She's taken, she doesn't want you or want you to want her or anything stupid like that.
3. Stop stressin and get back to your normal life

It's just a 16 year old girl man.. whats so special about her as a grown man's gf? she isn't even fully grown yet! besides thats illegal anyway