“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"I'm not ready for a relationship with another guy"

Reckoning

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So this girl broke up with her boyfriend (she's 19, 3 year long relationship) after cheating on him with me with a lot of complications (I've had to resort to "nc while you have a boyfriend" among other things to untie the knots), and she texts me a lot drunk like "I think about you all the time" and whatever, we were kind of in a relationship but she turned kinda cold suddenly and said she can't be with another guy right now even though she likes me a lot and that she hopes I'll understand and wants to stay in contact.

Honestly, whatever happens I'm nexting her, I immediately went for the LJBF counter and withdrawing attention (in an effort to get some more attraction going on), she responded along the lines "I guess that's something. I can tell you're mad though" to which I replied "relax -girl name-". It's barely worth the hassle I just wanna know what you guys think is going on.

And before I get a bunch of "she's playing you" she has shown repeatedly in the past that she's genuinely honest and upfront, but it's kinda overshadowed by her not knowing wtf she's doing half the time.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Between_The_Lines

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Reckoning said:
And before I get a bunch of "she's playing you" she has shown repeatedly in the past that she's genuinely honest and upfront, but it's kinda overshadowed by her not knowing wtf she's doing half the time.
You think her ex would agree with that sentiment?? She wants drama and excitement on tap, a reason to stay up until 3 in the morning on weeknights, ruminating, texting, teasing, and you want to be a part of that? To pull a quote I heard recently, "go ahead, step into the propeller..."
 

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She's not interested in you outside of friendship or attention. Move on.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

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Aka "I'm not ready for a relationship with YOU."
 
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