"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Konada

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Well guys, I did some reflection on myself a couple of days ago as my journal seems to have come to a standstill. What I found out was women have taken a backseat in my life now, I mean I have so many things going on in my life right now. Working out, meeting new people and planning to take up MMA, dancing classes, surfing classes after my finals.

I mean I went from this once guy who was so desperate for attention from girls, to a guy who don't gives q fvck what the girls think of me, I just talk to them when I feel like it, it's like life to me is about myself right now, women I feel right now are just an additon to my improving life and I'd dare say I can do without them. I am really proud of myself right now and though I still have a long way to go, I cannot imagine how awesome I'll feel when I get these things done.

Has anyone who undergone this journey felt this way before? Share your experiences.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PapiChulo

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Good, you are only 19 anyway and a man's prime is 25-35. I am in the same boat now as well. I am mostly concerned with career and all the things I didnt get to do because of lack of time, cash, priorities, etc.
 

HighResurrection

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Yah man that how is should be, always self first. Keep up with the approaches because it is definitely a life skill that will help you in other areas.
 

Konada

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Bump. Any more experiences? It'd be cool to see how others become the best of themselves (or are going to)
 

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just dont wear tap out shirts to bars and youll be alright....

also, if youre on this site, it would be a damn shame if you sign up for dance classes and don't bother trying to game some of those girls...thats a bit AFC, you don't have to go all out, but at least show that you're not some shy guy or gay lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Konada

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Lol of course I'll game girls after I'm done with my finals. Right now my loner rep in college is cast in stone, I can't do much to game girls here. I wished I discovered this site sooner, well at least before I started college.
 

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mtlwlu said:
just dont wear tap out shirts to bars and youll be alright....

also, if youre on this site, it would be a damn shame if you sign up for dance classes and don't bother trying to game some of those girls...thats a bit AFC, you don't have to go all out, but at least show that you're not some shy guy or gay lol.

Why cant we were tapout shirts to bars.
 

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Hey, do what ever you like. You are your first priority. But don't say no to girls. They are a source of joy. Just don't get your priority mixed up.

As for tapout shirts, they are the new douchebag fad. Every meathead wants to wear tapoutshirts to show how hardcore they are. Some of them don't even know how to fight. They just watch a lot of UFC and think they are the ****e.
 

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MaxLove said:
Hey, do what ever you like. You are your first priority. But don't say no to girls. They are a source of joy. Just don't get your priority mixed up.

As for tapout shirts, they are the new douchebag fad. Every meathead wants to wear tapoutshirts to show how hardcore they are. Some of them don't even know how to fight. They just watch a lot of UFC and think they are the ****e.
what about for guys that train consistently, is it ok for them to wear it
 

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Congrats Konada. Dancing classes are freaking awesome. When you get the confidence and the skill to just lead a girl through a breathtaking dance, you are King. That's when your looks don't freaking matter anymore, you can be the ugliest guy in the world, but if you can dance and lead, oh man, chicks are all over you.

And I'm glad you are focusing on you. Remember, YOUR girl must celebrate life with you, and that will automatically and in due time make her important in your life.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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