"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm not interested in women anymore (no homo)

Konada

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Well guys, I did some reflection on myself a couple of days ago as my journal seems to have come to a standstill. What I found out was women have taken a backseat in my life now, I mean I have so many things going on in my life right now. Working out, meeting new people and planning to take up MMA, dancing classes, surfing classes after my finals.

I mean I went from this once guy who was so desperate for attention from girls, to a guy who don't gives q fvck what the girls think of me, I just talk to them when I feel like it, it's like life to me is about myself right now, women I feel right now are just an additon to my improving life and I'd dare say I can do without them. I am really proud of myself right now and though I still have a long way to go, I cannot imagine how awesome I'll feel when I get these things done.

Has anyone who undergone this journey felt this way before? Share your experiences.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PapiChulo

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Good, you are only 19 anyway and a man's prime is 25-35. I am in the same boat now as well. I am mostly concerned with career and all the things I didnt get to do because of lack of time, cash, priorities, etc.
 

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Yah man that how is should be, always self first. Keep up with the approaches because it is definitely a life skill that will help you in other areas.
 

Konada

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Bump. Any more experiences? It'd be cool to see how others become the best of themselves (or are going to)
 

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just dont wear tap out shirts to bars and youll be alright....

also, if youre on this site, it would be a damn shame if you sign up for dance classes and don't bother trying to game some of those girls...thats a bit AFC, you don't have to go all out, but at least show that you're not some shy guy or gay lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Konada

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Lol of course I'll game girls after I'm done with my finals. Right now my loner rep in college is cast in stone, I can't do much to game girls here. I wished I discovered this site sooner, well at least before I started college.
 

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mtlwlu said:
just dont wear tap out shirts to bars and youll be alright....

also, if youre on this site, it would be a damn shame if you sign up for dance classes and don't bother trying to game some of those girls...thats a bit AFC, you don't have to go all out, but at least show that you're not some shy guy or gay lol.

Why cant we were tapout shirts to bars.
 

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Hey, do what ever you like. You are your first priority. But don't say no to girls. They are a source of joy. Just don't get your priority mixed up.

As for tapout shirts, they are the new douchebag fad. Every meathead wants to wear tapoutshirts to show how hardcore they are. Some of them don't even know how to fight. They just watch a lot of UFC and think they are the ****e.
 

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MaxLove said:
Hey, do what ever you like. You are your first priority. But don't say no to girls. They are a source of joy. Just don't get your priority mixed up.

As for tapout shirts, they are the new douchebag fad. Every meathead wants to wear tapoutshirts to show how hardcore they are. Some of them don't even know how to fight. They just watch a lot of UFC and think they are the ****e.
what about for guys that train consistently, is it ok for them to wear it
 

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Congrats Konada. Dancing classes are freaking awesome. When you get the confidence and the skill to just lead a girl through a breathtaking dance, you are King. That's when your looks don't freaking matter anymore, you can be the ugliest guy in the world, but if you can dance and lead, oh man, chicks are all over you.

And I'm glad you are focusing on you. Remember, YOUR girl must celebrate life with you, and that will automatically and in due time make her important in your life.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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