I'm in agreement with the "not over the ex" thing. She gave you the LJBF bullsh*t. And she told you that you aren't her type. Eject Ghost-rider. Go completely ghost on her, no texts, no calls, no tweets, nothing. Maybe she'll contact you down the road once you disappear, maybe not.
Yeap. "Not over the ex" in my opinion too. Why?
1) She is from closed circle of friends (her EX too), she spends 90% of her time with his best friends (male and female), so he is "in the picture" all the time (not directly, they are not seeing each other, nor talking to each other). She rarely spends time outside this group, and i noticed the group "encourge" them to get together again
2) He was her first and only boyfriend, big teenage love for 3 years, then she dumped him beacuse she was bored (in fact, she was in the shadow of his hobbies and never have a chance to develop her interests). She told me, that EX was devastated, he was planing to engage etc.
3) When arguining with me, she was unconsously and repedetly telling things like: "I've never dated any other guys", "he was my only true love", "i have no expierience"... But also telling me this is closed chapter for her and she moved on..
4) When I recall the topic of EX, she gets nervous and nostalgic. I wrote to her last week "oh btw: I heard that you ex is dating some girl bla bla" (which is true), she wrote "What?? What are you talking about??" and then hasn't respond to my other message...
I am willing to bet my left nut you made no attempts to create an emotional bonding moment with her, therefore, she feels nothing.
Wrong.
We had very instense emotional connection, she loved to speak with me, wanted to meet, we had sexual-context talks, she loved to kiss me, she even told about me her mom, she agreed we should travel somewhere etc. etc.
Then it suddenly ended, not only she told me im not "in her hugging bodytype" and "i felt no chemistry", but also gave impression that all these talks and energy mean NOTHING to her, she treated me like some AFC she met at party, got drunk and kissed, and now regrets.
I feel like being USED.
a plate of mine told me it was weird for her to get used to embracing me. im much leaner than her ex bf and she simply wasnt used to it.
Ok, and she has much smaller breast than my ex, flat ass, and being skinny too (not fitness) - and I still WANT her BADLY.
