"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm NOT good with girls - my confession

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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skip2mylou781 said:
whoaaaaaaaa flamers BACK THE **** UP, u got my subject heading all wrong, mostly.....
I'm alot of things girls wouldnt like........

BUT


whats happenin here??

ive ****ed 58 GIRLS in the last 3 years, simply by hook up #'s im a PIMP (kissed prob at least 200 in total in the last 4 years)

WTF IS GOING ON HERE??

i SUCK, yet im GOOD??
Yes, this is not out of the ordinary - this is a world of hors and you are merely the next pimp in line - you really have nothing to do with the outcome - except merely "being there" --- Hors attach themselves to the closest and easiest target -- just because the hors want to "feel it"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
WOW

"smileys on lavalife" DONT work....i dont even kno wtf that is, is that some kinda special AFC tactic????
You go on lavalife, you create a profile, upload a few pics. People either see your profile, or you send various smiles out so they can notice your profile. On lavalife sending smileys are free - but sending a message you have to pay for. Usually, I'll wait for a return smiley before sending a message to decrease the liklihood that I'll be wasting credits on people who wont return the message or aren't interested.

skip2mylou781 said:
LUke, u dont get wat i mean about hotornot.........my pic that got rated a 9.0, it was 4 years ago, i was skinny and somehwat average, in REAL LIFE, girls would have seen me and called me a 4 probably......so my 9.0 was realyl a 4 in real life - u cannot know how good u look by a HOTORNOT pic - PERIOD
Well, let's look at this as internet dating instead of real life. If you can get a 9 on an online picture rating, that means you'll likely be successful picking up people online. So, if I go back on the online scene, I'd have to fix my pics up to get a better rating score at the very least.

skiptomylou said:
i personally feel that 58 chicks in 3 years isnt even that much, cuz i still feel alot of nites i COULD be ****in a girl but im not, i dunno if im a sex addict or wat.
That averages about 20 chicks a year. If you are claiming to be 'not good' with woman, that doesn't sound convincing at all. You are good with women - but there is room for improvement.

I don't know, the way the title thread started is like you are doing 'negative bragging' - it seemed that you were portraying yourself as a WBAFC and complaining that you only got 20 chicks per year on certain online numbers games formula using myspace. If you are getting 20 chicks a year, then you are not WBAFC, BAFC, and even an AFC could be disputed - you HAVE to be good with women - sure you could be BETTER - but what is your goal, a girl every day?

skiptomylou said:
Part of my success could be that, when i wasnt THAT good with my game, id say outta the first 15 chicks i ****ed, only one was an HB8+, aka otheres were like HB6-7 on average, so i had to start somehwere, and lately, the last 10 i ****ed, on average have been HB7.5, with a few HB9s thrown in....im still learnin, still gettin there
Good, this is making sence - you were not THAT good with your game, meaning you had a game, and it appears you are successful. It's just your game was not good enough for your sexual needs or desires - you want more than just 20 girls a year.

However, skip, you know if you are not filling your sexual needs with your current game doesn't mean that you are not GOOD with women by standard.
If you are not GOOD with woman, then you would be having like one or two woman a year if you were lucky, and they'd be UG's or something. Results are too good.


skiptomylou said:
FYI - college girls and high school seniors who are 18 are the EASIEST things ever (and the hot ones r easy too, which makes it so good!)
Ok.

skiptomylou said:
just play the damn #s............2 things u gotta know everyone:

1)GO FOR GIRLS WHO ARE IN THE SAME RANGE AS YOU IN LOOKS (if ur a 3, u aint gettin with a 9 off a cold approach, sorry to break it to ya)

2)take rejection as fun and a step to getting closer to ****in some girl/getting a gf
Well, I'm staying away from online internet dating stuff until November - I thougth this thread was about online stuff. I thought you success were confined to myspace or online dating, and you were promoting online dating to everyone as an easy way to get laid. But, yeah, I agree with the numbers game stuff - it's just when it comes to online - it just seems to rely more on luck than anything else.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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